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Momlife222 · 20/08/2023 15:08

I recently got married and the more I think about things the more I think of all that went wrong.. the worst of all I've just realised my dress weren't done up properly. My dress had buttons that were meant to be done up to hide the zip and no one did it up. I'm so heart broken because I haven't got my photos back yet and now I know they're going to look terrible. My new husband convinced me not to get too many photos outside because the rain and now at the moment all I have with my kids is one with my two daughters with all the bridesmaids and one with just my son with other people I said ok because I was sure our photographer would get some of us together at the venue but he said he has us in the same shot but not together alone. I didn't get one with my sister alone. I don't think we got the big group shot and I also have no photos or videos of me and my youngest having a dance. How does that happen though? My dress not being done up properly? I'm so heartbroken about how it all ended up and my husband doesn't seem to get why I'm so upset. We will be getting some more photos at a later date but I just don't understand how this all happened? I was so tired on the day as I literally spent the whole day before the wedding setting up the venue. I'm only one person but feel like I have to do everything and it all just didn't go right because I couldn't do everything. How do I stop hating myself? I'm crying a lot and really hating myself and feeling such upset with how it all turned out.

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AramintaLee · 20/08/2023 21:48

I'm sorry you're feeling so down about it. It's done with now so I think you need to accept there's nothing you can do about it. Why don't you try and focus on what was good about the day rather than the (perceived) negatives?

What did you like about the day? There must have been some things :-)

DustyLee123 · 20/08/2023 21:51

I had the post wedding blues too. DH thought I’d gone psycho !
Personally I’d accept it for what it is, I’m sure we’ve all had things happen on the day that we cringe about. But if you’re really upset, how about putting the dresses back on and have a photo shoot at a photographer.

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