Handhold please - nerves have kicked in and it's making me snippy

[MadCatLady27]

My wedding is in a couple of days and I'd been fine until today (busy with work and household chores)

Now the nerves are starting to hit and it's making me snappy

OH has just told me his best man will be coming round the night before once I've left for my parents. This is the same one who deliberately got him so drunk he was throwing up on his stag do so I'm catatastrophising he's going to do the same again the night before as I'll be out the way

He's still working and all day I've had to listen to him talking loudly on work calls - I was relieved to go and get my eyebrows done!!

I've dug out the Kalms I think it's time to go on them til it's over

Need help in not losing the plot as I'm at the point where I'm getting snappy and blowing each little thing out of proportion

I'm fretting about the weather, which I know I can't control

I just want to get to the day and everything to go smoothly, just burst into tears due to the stress 😬

I thought I was fine, maybe not!! I feel like I'll be fine once walking down the aisle but until then will be freaking out I know I'm probably being stupid!

No advice because I expect I will be exactly the same (and it’s still just under 8 months until my wedding!)

It’s such a lot of hype it’s hard not to make it into a massive deal. I couldn’t sleep last night (not wedding related initially) and started worrying about not sleeping the night before my wedding and ruining it for myself…which made it even harder to sleep last night 😂

I think it’s really important to just hold onto why you are doing it and what the end goal is. It’s only one day in the whole of the rest of your lives after all

Don't know where you are but the weather now says it's going to be dry and 18 degrees here in the NW which I'd say is pretty good compared to what we've had recently.

I'd make sure before you leave that your soon to be DH knows that you'll be deeply unimpressed if he turns up hung over tomorrow and you'll be holding him responsible, not his Best Man.

Hope your nerves have calmed down and good luck for tomorrow @MadCatLady27