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Ideas for evening entertainment at a small wedding with no disco!

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Wedding1234 · 23/01/2022 13:09

My son is getting married in mid Feb. Small wedding in a hotel with about 28 guests. There is a no loud music rule (so as not to disturb the hotel guests) so there won't be a disco or dancing etc in the evening.

There's going to be a period from about 4.15/4.30 to about 11 to fill.

The couple have thought of doing some board games for a little bit with drinks and there will be some buffet/nibbles early evening.

Has anyone done wedding entertainment without a disco/dancing? What did you do? They would love some ideas!

Thank you!

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sashh · 24/01/2022 03:36

A comedian - just make sure they are actually funny.

Are you near a uni with a performing arts department? Lots of students have to perform in empty theatres because there is no audience.

A talent show, the top table can be the judges, you'd have to have the right sort of people though, I know one of my friends would jump at this, another would hide under the table to avoid.

Get someone to be a reporter and interview / photograph guests to make a newspaper or news report, either delivered on the day or sent out afterwards.

Sweetener12 · 24/01/2022 09:17

Silent disco suggestion sounds good, I think. Maybe also make a wedding reception slideshow with the couple's love story or how they met, etc?
Here is a list of games, there are also many table ones that do not require any special stuff to be brought or prepared
www.theknot.com/content/wedding-games

Also quizzes, i.e. how well you know the couple, or something like that.

cookiemonster2468 · 24/01/2022 10:45

Silent disco.

But it partly depends who your guests are. If you're talking about board games then maybe they're not the "dancey" type anyway? In which case a quiz could be fun.

I think it's a bit odd that the venue are allowing a wedding until 11pm but no music. As a guest I'd find it strange to have no music-related entertainment at a wedding going on that late into the evening.

In your position I think I'd do speeches, games, cocktails/canapes, and finish a bit early at 8/9ish.

Muchtoomuchtodo · 24/01/2022 11:52

@Wedding1234 this is a chap who’s local to us but does travel. The photo is a few years old now! www.jasperblakeley.co.uk/
His shows are outstanding

Wedding1234 · 26/01/2022 13:34

Thanks everyone! They absolutely love the quiz idea which can be combined with some drinking, nibbles and socialising! Hopefully it goes well, I'll report back!!

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ninjafoodienovice · 27/01/2022 12:21

Could they do a sort of craft whereby you make your own wedding favour - paint a pebble with the date on or something like that - or colouring a specific template with space for words and then that can be bound and becomes the guest book

Didiplanthis · 31/01/2022 16:15

I assume all the times are fixed ? We had a 3pm wedding, got to the hotel about 4. Had dinner at 5 which went on till 6.30 ish. Then we just had a pianist for background music. Had a light buffet type thing about 9. Everyone just pottered round chatting. It was in a nice small hotel max guests 40. People could go to bed/leave when they wanted. Most were staying over. It was really relaxed and enjoyable but we are not into late nights and parties so it worked for us.

languagelover96 · 10/02/2022 10:23

Silent disco
Quizzes are good
Art work
Speeches
Music
Cocktails
Canapes/nibbles/snacks
Reporter type thing
Prayers
Talent contest type affair

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