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Don’t like wearing rings - any alternatives?

18 replies

NinaMimi · 03/06/2021 20:43

I’ve never liked wearing rings and neither does my partner. We could exchange rings at the ceremony and then remove them later but I was curious if anyone has done something else apart from exchange rings? Or did you just miss that part out?

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Vallmo47 · 03/06/2021 20:48

Following - I’m exactly the same.

InTheNightWeWillWish · 03/06/2021 20:49

Tattoo?

Neither me nor DH have worn our rings for years. We’ve not had a tattoo either.

polkadotpixie · 03/06/2021 20:51

We just don't wear ours. We're not any less married and neither of us find them comfortable

TheLovleyChebbyMcGee · 03/06/2021 20:54

How about a hand fasting? You use a scarf or a ribbon to bind your hands together during the ceremony, obviously its not permanent, but a nice replacement for exchange of rings?

sunflowersd · 03/06/2021 21:01

My grandad received a watch instead. Could that work for you?

minipie · 03/06/2021 21:03

I received my great grandmother’s ring, it was my something old and my something borrowed as I gave it back to my mum after the ceremony.

someonesomewhere1 · 03/06/2021 21:08

We didn't exchange rings at our wedding ceremony, we just missed that part out entirely.

You could get a ring you like and wear it on a necklace?

Heathofhares · 03/06/2021 21:08

In a registry office ceremony we just didn’t do rings- they just used a slightly different scripts that had joining hands instead. Although several family members were upset by it and told me it was not possible to me married without...

bonfireheart · 03/06/2021 21:09

A bangle with an inscription inside?

NinaMimi · 04/06/2021 09:50

Thanks for replies. I’d never really heard of hand fasting but looks interesting- will look into it. Also might look into other jewellery.

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NinaMimi · 04/06/2021 10:46

Through looking at booklet for registrars ceremony I also came across unity candles which is another option - thought I’d mention it for anyone coming across this thread

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TheLovleyChebbyMcGee · 06/06/2021 18:44

I think its traditionally scottish, but you can make it anything you want to, best of luck!

shdodnbek · 06/06/2021 18:53

A friend of mine had her engagement ring turned into a necklace which is nice. Other jewellery is a good option if it suits you.
Or a symbolic tattoo?

bonfireheart · 06/06/2021 19:08

I think a garland of fresh flowers like at Indian weddings is lovely. You can then dry out the flowers and keep them.

Jackparlabane · 06/06/2021 19:14

We just didn't have any. Went straight from 'I do' to 'You may kiss each other'.

BeaLola · 20/06/2021 21:48

No rings is fine

But you could go for watches , watch & bracelet , tattoos , haribo rings, flowers

PersonaNonGarter · 20/06/2021 21:52

Rings don’t need to be expensive. You can just use them ceremonially and then keep them in a drawer.

I don’t like rings and rarely wear my engagement ring but sometimes having my wedding ring on is… useful. I think I would have regretted not having one.

MimiDaisy11 · 20/06/2021 22:07

“haribo rings”
I love this idea 😂

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