Ok, we're getting married in Feb 2021 but have just found out that my girlfriend is pregnant.
Will be due in October so the baby will be 4 months old.
We can't postpone the wedding unfortunately so it looks like we're going to need to do this.
Really just after some advice, reassurance etc......
We'll have all our family and friends there obviously but will this "spoil" the day?
Will we just be constantly tending to the baby?
Our parents (I only have a mum, she has both but her Dad is not really the type to look after babies) are 69 and 71 years old so they can't be expected to look after the little one overnight.
But will be more than happy to help during the day but we appreciate everybody wants to enjoy the day and let their hair down.
So it's likely we would have to have the baby in with us the night of the wedding, I know my girlfriend wouldn't want to be away from the baby for any significant amount of time. We have accommodation in the same venue so not far to go but we can't expect someone to just sit in the bedroom, watching the baby for us.
Is this just going to be too stressful?
Not that there's anything we can do about it now, it's GOING to happen so we just need advice really.
Also we already have 4 children so the honeymoon wasn't going to be too long - we were looking at 3 nights in Dubai but obviously we will have to rethink that maybe and either NOT have one, or maybe go somewhere on a shorter flight. Would a honeymoon be ok with a baby? Somewhere in Spain or Greece possibly for a few days. We would only be relaxing anyway so if we went next summer when the baby was say 8/9 months old? Anyone done that?
Help?
Please?
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