Wedding evening guest only!

[mammy0f0ne]

So me and my OH have been invited to a wedding night do (whey) by his cousin, they're not close but we've been given 10 days notice🤣

Do we get a gift or?? I'm really not sure what to do this is the first wedding I've attended as an adult!!

HELP PLS!!

I’d put a tenner in a card.
You’re clearly invited to fill the space but it doesn’t mean you can’t have a nice time.

I would buy a bottle of champagne or a token gift.

Yes, get a card and gift. Doesn't need to be expensive. Something like a nice photo frame.

I would also give them a bottle of fizzand go.

We're definitely going! I'm looking forward to it just wasn't sure present wise

Only on mumsnet is it an insult to only be invited to an evening do at a wedding.

Yes, card & fizz will be fine

I don't think the OP is insulted

Why is it insulting to get an evening invitation. Anyway moving on. I agree with pp. A bottle of champagne or prosseco or even a nice wine. When I attended an evening do once I put several small bits in a pretty box with confetti and tissue paper. Candles and wine and chocs with a poem etc. Have a lovely time.

I love evening invites. I normally bring a bottle of champagne or a nice candle or some thoughtful token. Enjoy.

Agree with PP's, I'd get a card and some champagne. I'd be thrilled to get that from any of our evening guests!

Agree. Card and fizz.

10 days notice for a cousin is a clear insult. It's very much, others have said no so you'll fill in s gap.
I may go if local but no way would I travel or fork out for a hotel.

10 days notice, for a cousin does seem odd.
However, if you can get there easily enough, I'd go and have a night out if I was free.
I would stick some money in a card.
Can't understand this thing on MN where people always say to take a bottle of champagne. Champagne is not a popular drink in my circle, so what couple wants to end up with 37 bottles of the stuff ?