Wedding invite

[Jessicagriffiths]

One of my best friends of almost 20 years is getting married this summer and I'm a bridesmaid, she was a bridesmaid for me last August and her partner and children were invited all day. She's only invited my husband to the evening is it wrong of me to feel upset? She's doing her wedding on a tight budget but I just can't help feel let down.

Wow. I wouldn’t dream of splitting couples up into day/evening guests. I’d be upset too! How big is this wedding?

It's around 60 in the day and 100 altogether in the evening, I'm not sure what to say/do

Personally I would be unavailable for the post. ...

How well does he get on with her? Do you regularly go out as a group of 4? Does she come to your house a lot? If she is more your friend? Do you normally meet up with her/other girls in the evening? If so don't take it personally. Maybe they have a lot of family they 'had' to ask. You can't expect everyone else to do things the same as you.

It might just be that she thought it would be easier for you if he could look after DC in the day time (if you have them that is).

If I was you I’d be asking her (in an non obvious way) who else is invited before you get upset.