My older sister kind of spoiled my wedding and I'm struggling to think of our wedding day in a positive light. It's too tedious to go into, but basically she decided 3 days before our wedding that she wasn't coming .Her reasons were not great and I was quite upset. She actually turned up on the day after all but hadn't bothered to tell me she'd decided to come. I had already cancelled 3 places set aside for her and her family with the venue. Despite her behaviour, my parents essentially took her side. Rather than elated, I felt awkward for most of the day partly because I'm sure my mum and dad think I was being some kind of raving bridezilla...I mean, how DARE I want to know who was actually coming to my own sodding wedding? I am sad that the over-arching feelings I associate with this day are awkward and annoyed. It's pointless wishing it, but I ache to go back in time and have our day again without that nonsense. Lots went right and I am aware that in the grand scheme of things none of this is important. I just wondered if anyone else had had situations that marred their wedding a little...it's hard to admit that it wasn't the 'happiest day ' of my life. I feel really fed up with my sister and with my parents and it was the one day I wanted to feel nothing but love and joy.