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Token wedding gift - lottery ticket inappropriate?

18 replies

Cucumberscarecrow · 01/08/2014 07:27

A colleague is getting married so I thought I'd do a card and token gift. I'm running out of time and ideas and wondered if a fiver's worth of lottery tickets / scratch cards was something I could give....or is this a stupid idea? (Obviously, I'm not going to the wedding!).

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Seriouslyffs · 01/08/2014 07:29

That would be very kind.

LadyCybilCrawley · 01/08/2014 07:30

I would not do that

I'd use that money to buy a very nice card and write something thoughtful in it

FourAndDone · 01/08/2014 07:39

Lovely idea. Always get a scratch card in my birthday card, the anticipation is amazing!Smile

Cucumberscarecrow · 01/08/2014 08:40

I will buy a nice card and write something thoughtful too. My colleague has a very relaxed attitude to her big day so I don't think she'll be offended (although wanted to check here in case everyone thought it was a terrible idea).

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Lovethebubbles · 01/08/2014 08:44

Yes, do it! Someone did it for us on our wedding day and we thought it was a lovely idea.

beccajoh · 01/08/2014 08:45

Great idea.

MuscatBouschet · 01/08/2014 08:50

Do it. Lottery ticket would be my choice. Can you make the numbers memorable somehow?

Cucumberscarecrow · 01/08/2014 10:03

Ah, that's a lovely idea with memorable numbers. I can probably find some memorable dates for them on Facebook (engagement, birthdays etc) and obviously the wedding date will have to be first one. Thank you!

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ThursdayLast · 01/08/2014 15:50

I hope not, because that us what I've done as a guest at a wedding when hard up!
As PP suggested, I tried to make the numbers relevant/memorable etc

IIRC the couple in question won a tenner Smile

jas1978 · 05/08/2014 15:50

Lovely idea, he might give you a % if he wins as well ;)

Jackie0 · 05/08/2014 15:53

I wouldn't either. It's a bit crass, sorry.
Make sure they aren't religious / anti gambling.
I'd much prefer a donation made to a charity I support.

kaykayblue · 02/09/2014 15:31

I'd say it would strongly depend on the people. I'd say it's a pretty quirky token gift, but you never know if someone has a history of gambling addiction or whatever!

kaykayblue · 02/09/2014 15:32

If it's a female colleague I would do a mini "post wedding recovery" kit, with some nice smelling bubble bath, a scented candle and a huge bar of chocolate in it.

It's a little safer than lottery tickets.

MarchEliza · 02/09/2014 15:47

I think if you know they are not likely to be offended by this (they don't have views on gambling etc.) then this is rather a nice idea.

I don't gamble or do the lottery, however if someone did this for me I would think it was really sweet and fun.

kelda · 02/09/2014 15:48

Unless you are Dr Who, then no, I wouldn't bother.

gamerchick · 02/09/2014 15:49

Only do it if you're really not bothered if they get the big one. I think I would feel a pang or 2.

sally1978 · 03/09/2014 12:27

I would love lottery tickets. I think it is a great idea but I wouldn't give scratch cards. They look a bit tacky I think. Can you imagine if the lottery ticket won. It would be the best present ever!!!!

MsGee · 03/09/2014 12:33

I had this as a wedding present and thought it was nice. Can you choose numbers matching the wedding date?

I did worry though that if I won I would feel obliged to share the money with whoever bought the ticket (we didn't win luckily so not an issue Grin )

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