Hey lovely brides,
I am a due to be a BM to a friend next year and i just wanted to know if i am BU regarding the hen weekend.
Background is: I got asked to be BM a few weeks ago (a year after engagement and after bride fell out with her best friend) which i am thrilled about as she was mine and I have been helping with plans/ dres etc from the start anyway.
I have a DS - 8 months,and am going back to work and having to pay out for childcare. She has a DS 4 and is due early next year with DD.
They are getting married approx 5 hours drive north of us and so we will be having to take holiday and book accomodation for a long weekend for the weddig as they want us there at least one day before the big day.
So for last couple if weeks she keeps talking about the hen weekend and a few ifeas have been passed around; butlins, newquay, magaluf etc.
Anyways she messages me saying she's seen a 'deal' for spain - 3 nights self catering for £250, and wants to book it.
I txt her back just basically saying that i wasnt comfortable leaving my DS to go abroad and 3 nights may be a bit much as DS is bf at the moment (obs not sure about next year) however i was looking forward to getting away somewhere localish for a few days.
She has not spoken to me since, i have txt and tried to call her but nothing so i know she is probably annoyed at me as we usually talk every day.
Please advise...am i out of order? Should i go as i am BM?ld