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Wedding dress has arrived.....total disaster ( a bit long, sorry)

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minkymeerkat · 18/09/2011 12:04

My daughter's wedding dress arrived thursday....OMG it was awful.

Ok so you are probably thinking it was ordered from some dodgy web site.

Oh no, personal recommendation from a work colleague, had her mobile number, email address and home address which is local, also supplies a large department store beginning with D. We spoke and emailed on a regular basis. Deposit paid with order, final payment once dress arrived, so paid for.

Dress arrived 6 weeks early, the woman was either happy for collection in store or to our home address. We decided on home as she had promised to bring it herself but then had an email saying it would be delivered by DHL.

So far so good you would seem. Well i've seen better rags thrown away.

It was the wrong colour and wrong material. This was something we had ensured she was aware of, had samples etc. It was made of some type of cheap lining fabric.

The ribbon for tying up the corset at the back was frayed in some places and not even sewn in others.

The whole dress was just tacked together, this is no exaggeration, hem was unfinished, just a cut edge and the biggest issue was the fact you could put your hand through the seams at the side, not just in one place but four.

Also various dirty marks inside. This dress was so badly made that it would not last for an hour let alone the whole day.

So we contacted her and eventually she rang back, meanwhile my daughter in totally devastated and crying and i'm just thinking what the f*ck are we going to do as she gets married in 8 weeks. Woman very apologetic and promises full refund same day. Later we have an email stating we must return the dress via courier and she will refund postage before she will refund. Oh no, I want my money back but also for her to see the dress.

She has collected the dress and we have had our money back. But the upset she has caused is terrible and you know what we haven't been offered anything in way of an apology or compensation. Im not after money but a gesture from her because of this would be appreciated, we were left with 8 weeks to find a dress.

Luckily the fantastic Bridal store where we nearly originally bought this dress have found one for us and it will be here in time.

I wish i could name and shame so this doesn't happen to other brides.

OP posts:
TrillianAstra · 18/09/2011 12:17

No reason not to name and shame.

If I had bad service from somewhere I would.

Very glad you have found a dress at short notice.

Have you spoken to the friend who recommended? What does she say?

stabbystabbykillkill · 18/09/2011 12:18

Didn't you have fittings?

I remember fittings. and fittings. And fittings. And that was only for a bridesmaid's dress

raspberrytipple · 18/09/2011 17:08

I would think the dress had been ordered to arrive in plenty of time for fittings stabby, you would normally have a first fitting 6/4 weeks ahead so 8 weeks would be ideal for home delivery then make alterations. However, 8 weeks is seriously short notice to choose and source a new dress, poor thing - I would have been devastated too. Thank goodness the other shop found another for her. I would name and shame the other woman, otherwise some other poor soul might get caught too :(

stabbystabbykillkill · 18/09/2011 21:47

The OP has named on the other thread.

But...

If the dress shop is local why didn't you just go and see the woman for fittings?

How fast did you want the woman to act - the dress came Thursday and by Sunday you'd a new dress??

And you said in the OP that the woman was apologetic on the phone - so she apologised - what more did you want?

And why would she refund before she sees the dress??

1catherine1 · 25/09/2011 23:38

Stabby I'm sure OP is only upset because her DD is upset. Even if the company is doing their best now, for OP and her daughter I'm sure it feels like it is too little and too late.

Your poor daughter must feel so stressed, I'm sure her day will still be perfect though!

AnyFuleKno · 25/09/2011 23:41

Why did you bump this Catherine?

1catherine1 · 25/09/2011 23:56

it wasn't far down the list when I came in... never been to this forum before so I didn't realise it was old. I usually stick to the busy ones but I am browsing all the forums I never see.

sorry.. didn't mean to bump an old thread, I didn't realise. Especially didn't realise it would cause offence. I'll leave this forum in shame...

AnyFuleKno · 26/09/2011 18:15

Don't take offence, was an honest question, now I understand

oohlaalaa · 08/11/2011 15:35

I bought a dress through phoenix gowns, and it arrived with marks on and wrong size.

It was stressful, but we got there in the end.

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