Dp and I are getting married in September 2011 (hopefully!). Dp totally un-religious, thinks religious people are gullible fools etc etc. I don't know where I stand on religion yet, but am defo more towards the religious aspect. I want to go for a non-religious ceremony, as think it is a bit of a mockery as he is so anti organised religion, but he wants a church wedding, as it is "what everyone does". There is a fabulous castle nearby that does weddings, should I try to persuade him that this is probably better for our situation? I would find a church ceremony uncomfortable, as I would know he would be mocking the whole thing in his head, and don't want that.
The second thing is, we have a 6 year old dd, but it looks like she may be the only child at the wedding. None of our friends have had children yet, as they are still careering, and all the family children have grown up. She would be devastated if she missed it, so what can we do to make sure she doesn't get too bored? She is an only, so can be a little demanding in situations that take our attention away from her for long periods, as the wedding and reception may do.
I know these are silly questions, but it's all so overwhelming!