I am feeling really MISERABLE about weaning and that I'm not really doing very well by DS (7.5mo). Everyone else I speak to seem to have DCs that eat tons and it's all going swimmingly.
Here is what we did today and this is a VERY GOOD day:
(6am ish - a few little BFs but we co-sleep and I'm not sure how much he takes - it's very quick and neither of us are really awake.)
7.30 - wakes up, very short BF
8.30 - porridge with apple and pears - flatly refuses. Chews some small bits of toast.
10am - BF
12 - 4 teaspoons of carrot with chicken stock. Little stick of cheddar - 2 bites.
2pm - BF
4pm - quarter of banana, bite of cheese.
5pm - BF
6.30pm - 3 spoons baby rice with apple and pear (this is yesterday's discovery: that he will take a little of this blander food at this point but is not interested in BLW type things or stronger tastes.)
7.30 - BF
Now I am not kidding when I say this is a tremendously successful, lots of eating kind of day. I am much more inclined to BLW but in the last couple of days have been trying more puree type things, as DS mainly waves finger food around and hardly eats any of it.
I feel crap and disorganised in that I don't seem to be able to produce nice food during the short windows of DS's interest. I love the idea of 'they eat what you eat' but DP and I eat at about 8pm, and I usually find it's too meaty/ too fiddly to lend itself to being cooked separately for DS 3 hours before.
I am confused by 'food is for fun' versus AK three meals a day and my GP and HV suggesting vitamin supplements.
I really want to do BLW BETTER and have DS excited by a range of foods. But I'm honestly starting to panic about the GP advice above and the fact that other people's DCs of similar age seem to eat lots more. I have been very relaxed up until now but now am worried I have been too slack and not really trying hard enough.
I've tried feeding DS in his high chair, at the table with nothing to distract him - a few bites then he cries and gets bored. Or in the bumbo with toys on hand - bite or two, prefers toys. On my knee, with and without distractions - as above.
Sorry for the novella. I'll go and lie down now...