OK, got a cup from mothercare with a vari flow but in order to have a slower flow you ahve to turn the handles so they are a funny angle, then got a tommie tippee one where she has to suck almost like a bottle but she doesn't seem to ahve got the hang of that one and then theres the red one that either has nothing coming out or its pouring out. Was so fustrated DD has been having ewater out of a bottle but now she's 7.5 months really need to get this sorted help!!!!