Massive kudos for the organised chart and neat handwriting. As a stationery addict I'm jealous of your chart!
My DS is 8 months and he's my second. I have learnt to be a lot more relaxed with him than my first! Don't worry about making everything hamemade-their isn't always time and it does them no harm!
I would add finger food even at this stage. DS2 is much less dexterous than DS1 was but adding in finger foods with every meal has massively helped him and meant he's onto lumpy foods a lot quicker. I try and add finger foods but also spoon feed as he's a hungry bugger.
I don't tend to give him what we have but more similar to toddler meals. I'm also not adverse to a bit of fat or sugar as I was with DS1 (in moderation!)
Below is last two days of meals
Breakfast
Apple cinnamon porridge (made then processed so not as lumpy)
Toast with peanut butter
Warm milky Weetabix with mushed banana
Apple slices
Lunch
Broccoli scone (what mummy makes)
Cucumber slices
Tomato slices
Pouch of Salmon pasta
Soft tortilla wrap with cheese and cucumber sticks
Melty sticks
Peppers and hummus
Boiled egg
Satsuma
Dinner
Lentil and veg dhal with rice (defrosted from home made batch)
Broccoli florets
Bit of naan
Carrots
Green beans
Chicken casserole pouch
Yoghurt
I try and do a mixture of spoonfed and picky bits and do freeze meals ahead so I have portions for toddler too. Makes a big difference
Also worth buying a wavy chopper knife as makes slippery fruit easier to pick up
Good luck!