Hello everyone, I have a 20 months old daughter. I need advice on how to wean her and I am completely failing. My LO attended a nursery for the last 9 months. She was well there, and so she was partially weaned as she was able to spend 8 hours eating just solid food. Also, there were a couple of occasions, actually once for 4 days in a row, that my parents were with her for almost the full day or once from 6am-bedtime, when I was away and she was perfectly fine without me. Now, I came back to my family home for a couple of months to work from home, get some help from my family, and slowly wean her. It is a very hot summer here, so I understand she might need more fluids, and therefore is asking more. Recently, we went for a trip with a friend and her daugther the same age, and my LO was beautifully eating solids looking at this other child eating so nicely. She was definitely eating loads, and asked for breastfeeding for comfort. Since we came back from the trip, I had to find a nanny to help us at home, while parents work and I need to work. Now, the new nanny is coming everyday and we try to play together to get to know each other. My daugther is pushing her away, not letting me go to the bathroom even, and constantly asking for breastmilk. I feel very stressed as I am behind work, I feel tired breastfeeding and emotionally exhausted, as she cried so much when I say she had enough milk. She really does take a lot, from both sides, then once again, it is loads! and then I say there is no more, and she is crying in this way, that even her great-grandfather comes over worried what is happening. Does anyone know what to do in such situation? If I wanted to leave for a while, for how long would that have to be for a child this age to lose this overly strong association? She is really well with my parents, so I am sure it wouldn't be stressful for her during the day. It might be during the night though. I need some sort of strategy that is realistic in our situation, I fell so helpless