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Has anyone set up or go to a BLW group?

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Cazwa · 19/05/2007 19:50

Me and a friend Ive met through our BF group were thinking about setting up a BLW group along similar lines to our BF group and I wondered if anyone out there has done this before and has any advice?

The reason for setting up is that we've both found a real lack of advice, information or support apart from on the internet. My friend doesn't even have internet so between the pair of us we've muddled along and given each other support. A few people at our BF group have been asking our advice after watching our babies eating their lunch and hearing us talk about it so we thought perhaps there is a need.

We've found my nursery has never heard of it, our HV haven't, no other friends know of it, and its been sometimes a struggle when you are going it alone, so the moral support of a group might be helpful. Some days Ive thought this really isn't working when DD hasn't eaten a thing. Having someone say to me, dont worry, thats quite normal, it could be teething, try again tomorrow and dont stress, would have been a great help to me personally. IVe also found that our BF group is very much geared up for new mums and once your LO is past a few months and feeding well, or even gone onto formula theres not really the need to go, but there is nowhere else for weaning support.

Im thinking we meet in our local church large room which has a kitchen and high chairs, and meet around lunchtime once a week. We are going to advertise in local doctors, nurseries, through our 1 willing HV etc. People can come with their babies and all bring lunch and basically let them chow down! We might produce a really simple leaflet for first-timers which point them to the Rapley guidelines and some simple tips.

Any thoughts? Its in the North East by the way.

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lulumama · 20/05/2007 16:53

why is it different or more laughable than a breastfeeding support group? why cannot mums support each other? like all these sorts of things, will probably be more about getting out , meeting other mums and having a chat, rather than earnestly discussing size of chunk of food to hold.

think it is a great idea!

JulietFarkinBravo · 20/05/2007 16:55

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MrsBadger · 20/05/2007 16:58

because M&T mums assume you are neglecting / poisoning / abusing child if you hand them a sandwich rather than spoon in gloop...

MrsBadger · 20/05/2007 16:59

(have ofetn wondered if some M&Ts attract more SWMNBN-followers as they are scheduled at just the right time of day)

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lulumama · 20/05/2007 17:00

what MrsB said

all the mums and tots groups i have gone to , have been of the baby rice/ rusk at 12 / 14 weeks

can you imagine

  1. not weaning until around 6 months

  2. offering Real Human Food

Cazee · 20/05/2007 17:01

I think it is a brilliant idea, judging from how many threads there are on MN started by BLW's looking for a bit of reassurance now and again. Most health professionals have never even heard of it, so who is there to offer support?

JulietFarkinBravo · 20/05/2007 17:02

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lulumama · 20/05/2007 17:16

you are right, juliet......but it is 'new' to this generation!

EnidTheInvisible · 20/05/2007 18:07

ahem

if they are doing puree feeding can't you just say you are not?

we never discussed weaning at ANY m + t group I went to tbh

EnidTheInvisible · 20/05/2007 18:12

what happens if you like a mum and she puree feeds?

ruddynorah hsa that right idea imo

CODalmighty · 20/05/2007 18:14

lol at "(have ofetn wondered if some M&Ts attract more SWMNBN-followers as they are scheduled at just the right time of day) "

jetjets · 20/05/2007 18:57

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MrsBadger · 20/05/2007 19:00

Gina Ford, author of The Contented Little Baby Book, was engaged in a legal er, wrangle with Mumsnet, during which time we weren't allowed to mention her by name in posts and referred to her as She Who Must Not Be Named, or SWMNBN for short.

jetjets · 20/05/2007 19:03

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AnnabelCaramel · 20/05/2007 19:04

No, euuuuuurgh

jetjets · 20/05/2007 19:04

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Cazwa · 22/05/2007 21:25

Sorry, Ive been away visiting in-laws until tonight, not ignoring the thread!

All my friends puree-feed BTW, thats one of the reasons it would be nice to speak to others who do BLW instead of being the odd one out, and rather than 'virtually'.

Having read some comments here I can see its not without its comedy the idea of a BLW group where we discuss chunk-size
Perhaps just speaking at weaning chats might be a better route. I can also see that by the time my LO is 1-2 years old I will not give a monkeys about this. Its a very small phase that seems like the biggest deal in the world when they are turning their noses up at food, but soon passes... I hope!

Thanks for all comments, serious and not serious...

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SenseiAitch · 22/05/2007 22:31

it is a teensy phase, tbh. we were talking about this on the blog and reckon it's three months or so til they're up and running.

jorange5 · 25/05/2007 13:32

I would have loved to be able to meet, chat etc with mums doing BLW. All my NCT mummies exclusively bf till 5/6 months then went and started shovelling puree down their LO's throats and treating me like a weirdo for trying 'big foods'. I felt excluded and never wanted to feed LO round other people in case she gagged (cue lots of shouting and arm waving from people thinking I was choking her). Weaning is a big deal for first time mums and if you don't force feed mush then IME you are treated as odd.

Aitch · 25/05/2007 14:07

aaah, but you are odd, jorange5. i revelled in it (apart from the odd gagging thing i must admit).

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