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Am I teaching my 10 month old bad habits by turning teatime into a 'picnic'?

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Ceebee74 · 12/05/2007 16:44

My 10 month old DS is pretty useless with finger foods - he just plays with them and drops them all over the floor and then whinges to get out of his highchair.

So today, I thought I would not put him in his highchair (he gets bored VERY quickly in there) and put his tea of philly sarnies and some cucumber sticks on a plastic plate and we both sat on the floor and I let him take what he wanted off the plate and crawl around with it if that is what he wanted to do.

Subsequently he has eaten 3/4 of the sandwiches and picked up and played with some cucumber (doesn't seem to be able to actually bite any off) - which is more than he normally does.

Does this sound ok or am I going to make him think that all meals should be eaten off the floor?? (I should add that he has spoon-fed breakfast and lunch - as long as I spoon fast before he gets bored!)

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foxybrown · 12/05/2007 16:47

I think it sounds like a great idea. Whatever works IMO.

PestoMonster · 12/05/2007 16:48

Well I think it's a fab idea, especially if he's eating more than he normally would when contained in his highchair. My dds are older now, but I still do this sometimes at tea-time. I put down a picnic blanket in the living room and they eat an 'al fresco' tea indoors (usually when there is something special on tv they want to watch)

purplemonkeydishwasher · 12/05/2007 16:50

if you make food fun then it can't be a bad thing.
it'll just start good eating habits!
well done!

coweyes · 12/05/2007 16:55

I don't see that it will hurt at all. GS and I still have a 'picnic' at least once a week for his tea, and he's 4. We move to the garden on nice days.

Tommy · 12/05/2007 17:05

anything that works IME

We bought a telly to go in the dining room and mine often eat more when they're watching as they don't notice what they're putting their mouths...

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Ceebee74 · 12/05/2007 17:31

Ta for the reassurance - following my original thread, DS started actually eating a cucumber stick (which is unheard of) - plus there is philly rubbed all over the rug (must remember to put the plastic mat down tomorrow )!

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nappyaddict · 13/05/2007 09:00

my ds hated being in his high chair. he preferred his bumbo on the floor but outgrew that so i did the same as you until we found an alternative. now we've got a booster seat type thing but with no tray which he seems to like as it isn't so enclosed. he still has it on the floor on a mat at the grandparents etc though. although he isn't allowed to move around with it he has to stay on the mat.

nappyaddict · 13/05/2007 09:01

would be careful if he is eating and crawling around too incase he chokes.

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Ceebee74 · 13/05/2007 19:33

Nappy - thanks for the advice.

I think it may be partly due to the highchair as he seems to find it uncomfortable. Went out for lunch today and the pub supplied us with a booster seat type thing attached to a chair which he sat in quite happily etc for at least an hour - pulled it right up to the table and he ate bits of finger food off the table - I can't imagine him doing that in his (or any other high chair tbh).

Problem is I feel guilty as my parents bought us the highchair as a present when he was born and it was quite an expensive one so I do feel we should continue to use it - what to do??

Had another 'picnic' this afternoon for his tea and he ate most of a round of peanut butter sandwiches!!

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AitchTwoOh · 13/05/2007 19:40

when dd started cruising she decided she preferred to have her plate on the coffee table at lunchtime. i'm not a big believer in the 'bad habits' thing, surely it's a better habit to eat well and happily? i'd ditch the highchair, btw. you can get booster seats for £15.99... sell the highchair on and make a profit.

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Ceebee74 · 13/05/2007 19:49

aithc - tempting, very tempting but what would my mum say??

Fear I am going to have to buy the booster seat but keep the highchair when my parents visit!

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Ceebee74 · 13/05/2007 19:50

Sorry - Aitch (only had 2 sips of beer so far and look what happens )

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AitchTwoOh · 13/05/2007 19:54

tbh, i'm sure if you explain that her grandchild doesn't actually like the highchair then it would be fine, would it not? none of you knew that when it was chosen...

nappyaddict · 13/05/2007 21:03

ceebee when you were out at the restaurant did you put anything on the table. i always try and put serviettes down cos i get paranoid that table might not be clean but he just pulls those off!

AitchTwoOh · 15/05/2007 12:07

ask them to give you the biggest, flattest plate they've got. somethign like a pizza plate is good, as they don't tend to fanny around with them so much ime.

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