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Exhausted and considering night weaning buy concerned about fluid intake

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DoubleHelix79 · 18/11/2017 08:48

My DD is 8.5 months old. She has slept fairly badly the last month or so, taking in the usual two feeds but also waking up a few times in addition. She's also now waking up between 5 and six most days.

I'm back at work and constantly exhausted. DH is of limited help. I'm considering night weaning her in the hope that she starts sleeping longer stretches of time.

We've made progress with getting her to self settle in the evening (she happily goes to from fully awake to falling asleep without any intervention) and at night I've stopped rocking her back to sleep now. She will cry and be angry, but after a few times patting and shushing her she'll go back to sleep.

I could either hope that over time things get better on their own, or begin night weaning and hope that this improves her sleep.

I'm very tempted to try the latter, but am worried about her fluid intake. She is now bf morning, night and evening and ff during the day. She's very unenthusiastic about bottles and will only drink about 200ml total during the day (between ca. 8am and 6pm). She only takes tiny sips of water, regardless of how many different cups and bottles we try. So a lot of her overall fluid intake is at night and I don't want to risk dehydration.

Has anyone been in a similar situation?

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DoubleHelix79 · 19/11/2017 10:53

Anyone?

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EveryoneTalkAboutPopMusic · 21/11/2017 20:55

I think she will be ok. She will still be being bf 3 times a day, plus having 200 mls of milk. I’d say that should be enough. Having said that though, both of mine still woke for feeds in the night at that age 🙂

If DH isn’t helping at night. Could yiu give her a feed when she wakes in the morning and get him to take her downstairs for breakfast while you sleep a little longer? If he can’t do this every day, he may be able to do it a few days a week?

icclemunchy · 21/11/2017 21:16

I wouldn't worry about her fluid intake, that said is very common for them to reverse cycle and get in the feeds they'd have during the day at night time. Rough on you but it does settle.

The only thing I'd be weary of is that night weaning doesn't guarantee she'll sleep through or even longer. You may still have to get up with her just without boobs to settle her

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