He will eat ANYTHING for my mum when she looks after him 3 days a week whilst I'm at work. At home with me he will have his milk in the morning and evening fine, and usually his breakfast (weetabix and fruit followed by a slice of toast). However lunch and tea are a different matter, he either takes a couple of mouthfulls and pushs the spoon away or (in the last couple of days) starts shaking his head when he sees the spoon coming. I usually put some finger foods on his tray (veg etc) which used to distract him so I could get the spoon in! but even that doesn't work - he has starting splatting the foods on his highchair tray. I even gave him a spoon loaded up in case he wanted to try and feed himself but he wasn't interested. He isn't fussy and will try new things - my mum thinks he is just playing me up - could he really be this crafty. I am starting to get stressed by it, could he be picking up on this. Also, if he refuses main meal he will usually eat dessert (yeo valley natural yoghurt) so I know he is hungry! sorry for the long post any ideas or tips will be gratefully received!