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baby will not eat solids - hv worried.

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Titsalinabumsquash · 19/02/2016 16:53

My DD is 10 months old and she's still not eating solid food, the health visitor has referred her to a dietician because she says she should be having 3 good meals a day and snacks, she's not putting on weight well at all, but she had always been slow to gain.
She was 6lb at birth, dropped to 5lb 2oz a week after and is now 14lb 10 oz.

She's breastfed and has a lot of milk, it's her go to over anything and the first thing she looks for.

I offer her a meal 3 times a day, either purée or finger foods the same as us,
She is put to the table with the family with her food and I've tried letting her eat from my plate and have tried spoon feeding her puréed foods too.

She picks food (and everything else!) up and puts it in her mouth, but hen she just spits it straight out, I can't even get calpol or medicine into her, she has to have suppositories.

she has 2 teeth and has had an ongoing battle with oral thrush wish I think we've sorted now. She's also had a bout of tonsillitis and a few ear infections.

When we first started weaning her she ate well, toast, roast dinner, pasta etc but that was only for a few weeks, now she's surviving on milk and very, very rarely she'll take some yoghurt from a spoon.

She's developing well in all other areas, she is taking the first few steps, she can cruise, crawl say a few sounds and words, she can clap, wave and is generally a bright and happy girl.
She just won't eat!

I'm determined not to make a big deal of it and let it become an issue but the HV said she won't develop her speech and swallowing muscles properly and she's already so tiny that my milk can't sustain her and I won't be able to sustain my supply and my health at the rate she's feeding.

Does anyone have any tips?

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HSMMaCM · 22/02/2016 21:23

And don't forget that meals don't have to be at traditional mealtimes. If she seems hungry and asking for milk, offer a snack, even if it's 10am or whenever you are not normally eating. Also sitting at the table for family meals as you have been, with no expectation of her eating, but with food within reach.

MigGril · 23/02/2016 10:34

Yes being born at 35 weeks is relevant you'd need to look at her birth weight corrected on the charts. So he weight gain may not be as bad as you think.

You could request a pedatitions refurral rather then just seeing a dieation, just to rule out any health issues. Although if she's meeting all her development mile stones in every other way then that is a good sign.

Could be an allergy though which is possible still, has she reacted to any goods you've given her? Ever been colicky or unsettled after food at all? Hopefully a dieatiosion should look at this.

Sorry about my poor spelling hopefully you get the idea.

Curlywurly4 · 23/02/2016 11:16

Yes being prem is relevant. Looks like she was born on the 50th and is now on the 2nd, so she's crossed three centiles.

Lots of babies eat very little at this age and prefer the breast/milk but continue to have good weight gain.
I would ask for a pead referral. Could be lots of things, allergies, coeliac etc but worth looking into.

JiltedJohnsJulie · 23/02/2016 20:15

Agree with the others. Ask for a referral to a Paed and ask it the Dietitician specialises in Prems but I would also seek the help of a BFC or a Lactation Consultant.

JiltedJohnsJulie · 23/02/2016 20:20

Have you read this and did you get a chance to read the one I gave you in increasing baby's weight? Smile

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