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Self-feeding - DS half wants to do it - any tips?

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chocolateshoes · 03/10/2006 19:03

DS is 15mths & will happily feed himself finger food & usually is happy to be fed on a spoon or my fork. However the last couple of tea times he has not wanted to feed himself finger foods, but just wants to put his fingers in his dish of food & play around with it. If I let him I can get him to be fed with his spoon while he plays but he makes untold amounts of mess! Do you think this means he wants to have a go himself? If I offer him a spoon he'll play with it but doesn't make much attempt to have a go. Do you think I should let him play with his food - afterall he is trying out different textures etc? Do you think I should encourage him to have a go a feeding himself? If so - any tips? Have bought a couple of suction dishes but they won't stay fixed to our plastic table cloth! Am quite willing to go through this extreme messy phases if it is likely to stop at some stage! Will it???

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DingALongCow · 03/10/2006 19:31

YES!!! Its fantastic fun and you get the very best photos from letting them experiment. My daughter is 15.5 months and she feeds herself 90% of the time now and we have some amazing photos of her covered in yoghurt and all sorts of disgusting muck. Bonus is you egt to eat all your food at the same time, without having to concentrate on child at same time. She has also mastered a fork recently, lots of mess but fanatsic fun.

Tips: dont bother with the suction, just be close and away, I thought I was safe with suction until she worked out how to unsticky the bowl when I was the other side of the kitchen!

Dishclothes or something all over highchair, plastic mat on floor

Dont give food the spoon can get stuck in. We gave DD couscous which was a bit sticky. Cue the spoon getting stuck and food being catapulted across the kitchen

Strip the child first, then you can just dump them in the shower if necessary.

Small pasta pieces, rice, couscous, risotto, yoghurt etc are good to start with.

Dont worry about the mess or table manners, just watch and enjoy (from behind a plastic screen!!)

We usually have bread/cheese/fruit for lunch, that means we can take it out easily if we are out for lunch and we save the messy meal for the evening meal, because picking grains of couscous out of DD's hair when I want to get out and get to playgroup in the afternoon is not my idea of fun.

DingALongCow · 03/10/2006 19:32

I meant, 'just be close and not too far away'

chocolateshoes · 03/10/2006 19:33

Thanks! Lots of brilliant advice! Will start tomorrow - wish me luck!

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DingALongCow · 03/10/2006 19:40

GOOD LUCK!!!
I love being able to sit at the table with DD and eat with her, we chat away (well I chat, her side of the conversation is lots of 'ooof ooof dog' type stories) and I feed her the occasional tidbit off my plate. Yesterday she wouldnt eat hers, so we swapped plates, I had the winnie the pooh bowl and she had my plate and she ate it all....even the brocolli .
Can you tell I love it?

chocolateshoes · 03/10/2006 19:45

Your posts are glowing!!!! I want that!!!

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