7.5mo DS has been on solids for around six weeks now with no major let-up in the gagging. I wanted to do BLW but I was spending just as much time cleaning up vomit as I was clearing dropped food off the floor and I just couldn't bear it anymore so have reverted to a combination of finger foods and texturised food. He started as a spoon refuser but is (slightly) happier with them now and doesn't gag with purées or slightly textured foods - rice pudding is OK, for example - but he gags his way through most finger foods and still vomits if he tries to swallow something a bit too adventurous, bringing up everything he's struggled down his neck, and then some. He fed himself a good amount of cauliflower and broccoli cheese the other day, only for a floret to hook itself the wrong way around a tonsil and he threw it all back up again - I could have cried! He infinitely prefers feeding himself and I know he needs textures to desensitise his gag reflex so I don't feel I should be limiting him to a mush-only diet. He definitely doesn't have reflux - the vomiting is a heave (or several) in response to an overstimulated gag.
Is this level of gagging normal at this age? Does anyone else have a super-gagger and/or has anyone had one and when will it stop??