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Need reassurance from BLW purists please

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Yay4may · 29/11/2012 09:22

Hello....have been exclusively breastfeeding since birth and have 7 month old who LOVES BLW and her food and has taken to it like a charm. So well in fact that she's drastically reduced her milk in the last week -- to the point where I woke up yesterday and had NO MILK!!! I am annoyed at myself for not cottoning on to this until now as I should have noticed over the past week but hey ho.

From what I have read this drastic reduction does not usually occur until later but the BLW literature (Rapley) says to trust your baby and she will take what she needs and when. I really want to do that but it can't be the case that she needs 0 milk at 7 months! Or can it?

I am not worried she's hungry and all else normal/happy but I am worried about a) losing my milk and having to stop ebf b) she's missing out on the benefits of breast milk too early on that even the best BLW diet can't provide.

So I reduced her food yesterday slightly and went about the business of establishing the milk - laid in bed all day doing skin to skin and letting her suck whenever she wanted. She did quite a bit of sucking which means she's wanting the milk/interested in breeding. We did the same throughout the night and she had a full nappy this AM and my milk is (very) slowly coming back.

I am going to do the same thing today to get the milk back in but I am slightly annoyed/worried as although I feel it's important not to lose the milk, I think it will have two undesirable knock on effects - 1) disrupt her excellent BLW progress. And 2) disrupt her nights when she has been previously doing 1030-600. Am more worried about 1 than 2. I am torn between thinking I need to take a step back to move forward and thinking sod it, she knows what she needs just let her drink and eat whatever she wants.

Sorry for long post, have not had much sleep!

Interested to hear reassurance/support for either plan and similar experience of early dropping of milk.

Thanks!

OP posts:
mrscog · 29/11/2012 18:22

Hi sorry I'm not an expert - maybe see if this can be reposted in Breast & Bottle feeding as there are a few v experienced breast feeding supporters there.

mrscog · 29/11/2012 18:22

Hi sorry I'm not an expert - maybe see if this can be reposted in Breast & Bottle feeding as there are a few v experienced breast feeding supporters there.

mummybare · 29/11/2012 19:21

Disclaimer: not an expert either. DD is about the same age, though, and I know I would be concerned too.

It sounds as though you're doing all the right things to get your supply back up.

When are you offering meals in relation to milk feeds? My understanding is you are supposed to offer them 45 mins to an hour after a feed to try and ensure they are still hungry for milk feeds. This is what I attempt to do as far as possible and it seems to work in that DD still has 4 milk feeds a day despite cramming to tonnes of food into her mouth at every opportunity!

BadlyWrittenPoem · 30/11/2012 21:55

I did similar to what mummybare describes - meals were mainly within an hour of a milk feed which meant that the food was in addition to the milk rather than replacing it.

ChippingInLovesAutumn · 30/11/2012 22:01

I agree, BF first then offer food about 45 mins later. It will reduce how much she eats, but it shouldn't reduce her interest in the variety of things offered - so shouldn't stop her doing well with BLW.

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