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13mo DD being incredibly fussy after prolonged teething. Any advice?

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lemniscate · 01/11/2011 18:51

DD recently had a 2 week period where her top 2 teeth were coming through and she was in a lot of pain. I offered the same food as everyone else as usual but she would only pick at it and eat the things on the plate she liked (i.e. pasta, fish, chicken, yoghurt, rice pudding). She seems ok now, but her eating has gone to pot over the last few weeks. Beforehand she would eat most vegetables and a fair amount of fruit, and a wide variety of protein and carbs, plus lots of different flavours, i.e. most things I put in front of her. Now she will sometimes eat carrot but all other veg is ignored or tossed over the side of the high chair. She has even gone right off tomatoes and oranges which were her favourite things (I guess because the acidity was hurting her sore gums and now she is a bit scared of it hurting again?).

I'm loathe to do that hiding veg in sauces thing as I want her to eat properly how she always has done, but she will not touch any veg I give her, be it steamed on the side or mixed in to things like curries and risottos, and she won't eat much fruit other than grapes and blueberries (she was always a bit fussier about fruit). Because she always ate a broad range of things we didn't mind her having rice pudding, cake or biscuits occasionally but I have had to start rationing those even further so she doesn't get into a sweet stuff only mode. She was BLW and is incredibly independent - she has been spoon feeding herself for the last couple of months too but point blank refuses to be spoon fed by anyone so there is no way I can even shovel anything in quickly without her noticing.

Any tips on getting her to eat a wide variety of food again? Is it just a matter of putting everything on her plate and hoping that she just picks them up at some point? Do I have to start making pasta sauces with 20 different veg in? She has always eaten whatever the rest of the family eats, with the occasional exception, and she eats all meals with whichever of the family is around so I'm not sure what else to try really. Do you think a sticker chart would work for a 1 year old? :o

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lemniscate · 01/11/2011 21:57

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Albrecht · 02/11/2011 22:21

Is it just a matter of putting everything on her plate and hoping that she just picks them up at some point?

I'd say yes, they are fickle things, just let them get on with it unless they are looking emaciated and scurvy ridden.

lemniscate · 03/11/2011 15:55

Oh, she definitely isn't emaciated, the chubster, and I'll keep an eye out for scurvy but she hasn't got any pus-filled spots yet so think we're safe for now :)

My default was to just keep putting it in front of her but I wondered if anyone had any brighter ideas as that isn't working at all at the moment :(

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Albrecht · 04/11/2011 12:25

ds is not an eater and the reading I have done on here and elsewhere suggests it is not a good idea or even in some cases possible to force them to eat more than they want / need.

He just got 2 teeth through finally and actually ate normalish amounts of food for a few days afterwards. I was amazed. Now he seems to have another coming so he's back to the usual lick and then throw it all on the floor. Except he has now learnt to say Nononono while pushing offending things away (also used for nappy changing time, with added kicking).

Keep providing meals and snacks you know they like alongside normal variety of family food and don't stress (visibley).

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