I started weaning a couple of weeks ago and it is going really well. I am very slowly winding down breastfeeding too and having no problems with LO accepting bottles of formula.
I'm not offerring water and I don't really understand how you know when to or if you need to? His routine is as follows:
7am Boob feed
11am Small boob feed, bottle of formula and some baby rice mixed with fruit or veg
3pm Small boob feed, bottle of formula and some baby rice mixed with fruit or veg
7pm Small boob feed, bottle of formula
I'm careful about him getting enough milk (he is just over 5 months) so I never offer solids until he refuses the milk and always offer a drink of milk following solids which he rarely takes.
Why give water? Is it avoid constipation?