I read the leaflets the health visitor hands out about DO NOT wean before 26 weeks, and if you really can't follow that, never ever ween before 17 weeks. The leaflets tell me my child will get allergies, is not developed enough to do it and so on. Ok thinks I, information on board.
Anyway, baby led weaning looks ace, I quite fancied giving it a go. Such things weren't heard of when my first child (11 year old) was little, you weaned at 3-4 months, with a spoon.
My baby is 20 weeks.
I was talking to someone the other day who said they were giving baby rusks at 11 weeks, having taken in the advice from the HV I quietly recoilled in horror. I told this horror story to a friend, with a 7 year old boy. Friend said "I was giving [the 7 year old] rusks from 9 weeks." She then proceeded to give me the "you know your own baby" speach. I said nothing, not worth losing a friend over, this boy is 7 now. I was horrified though.
And rusks of all things? Aren't they nearly all white sugar and allergy-inducing wheat? Or did I get that wrong?
Also, most of the time early weaners say thier babies were feeding a lot, refluxy or fussing and mouthing when thier parents were eating. Er, yes, I have one like that too. So the early weaners are telling me I ought to be feeding her solids now.
I don't know what to think. The department of health and my health visitor want me to see early weaning as a terrible sin but there are a significant number of real world mothers who wean very very early and they say different.
What do you think?