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Am I feeding my 11 month old enough?

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TinyPenguin · 07/02/2011 08:41

Hi

We've just taken our little one to clinic dor her 9-12 month check. She will be one in two weeks time - they weighed her & her weight has dropped from being on the 95th centile to the 75th. She has gained approx 400g-500g in just under 5 months.

She was exclusively breastfed until 6 months and we have been doing a mixture of traditional weaning & BLW since then (although never purees).

I've always fed her/offered her food until she appears full - usually starts throwing food around or sweeping around the highchair tray.

She continues to be breastfed & i don't ever intend to give her formula. I didn't feel encouraged by the health visitor to continue my breastfeeding at all - in fact I was made to feel weird - it felt like she was pushing me to switch to cow's milk and give up breastfeeding.

A typical food diary for the day for example:

She wakes up at 0530 and has a breastfeed. Then we wait about an hour and then have breakfast.
Breakfast: she will have half a weetabix & a couple of slices of pear. (Although most days never finishes the weetabix).
Breastfeed midmorning, then a nap.
Lunch: Philly sandwich made from one slice of bread (sometimes she eats it all, sometimes only a quarter). Half a banana. Some raisens, a few pom-bears, half to a full babybell.
Breastfeed mid-afternoon then a nap.
Dinner: Some kind of hot meal, e.g. Bolognase pasta (about 3 tablespoons full), a fromage frais, and sometimes the remaining half of the banana!
Breastfeed before bed.
Feeds a couple of times over night if I get up to her, however if my husband does she goes without.

I haven't been giving snacks but am now thinking maybe I should start to?

What snacks can people suggest?

Any encourgement from those still breastfeeding at 12 months would be lovely to hear too!!

Thank u

OP posts:
JetLi · 07/02/2011 09:31

That all sounds fine to me Smile

I really wouldn't worry about the tiny drop in centiles. I also would take no bloody notice of the HV wrt the breastfeeding TBH. Our local one is the same - very much "Oh you really should be giving that up by now!"

Carry on as you are. Often I have all on getting 3 meals a day into DD, never mind snacks as well. But she has fruit mid-morning on a good day.

RJandA · 07/02/2011 15:16

What JetLi said.

The fact that your LO is not finishing everything you give her shows that she is stopping when she is full IMHO, you can't force more into her, can you? If you want to offer snacks too then give it a go, but she's obvioulsy not hungry. And moving from 95th to 75th is completely normal, they're not all going to follow an average growth pattern, are they?

Re stopping breastfeeding, if HV says anything again, you could tell her the WHO recommendations, and that the NHS supports bfing beyond 1 year, and ask her for some literature to back up what she is saying. She won't have any. Has she even given you a reason why you should stop?

There are some great HVs out there, but also some who aren't really any more help than your neighbour's mum or any other person who is slightly acquainted with you and your LO.

Snack ideas - DD likes rice cakes, raisins, a bit of fruit, breadsticks.

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