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Should I delay weaning? Or switch to BLW? Confused?please help?

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lukacmum · 23/07/2010 15:02

Hello,
Please bear with my English?..

My DD is 6 1/2 month old now. She will be seven month within week and half. I breastfed her exclusively till 6 month and introduced baby rice on her 6 month mark. Since then I have introduced pear, apple, sweat potato, courgette and carrot. It was all pureed mix with breast milk and spoon fed. I have introduced new taste every couple of days. The first week of weaning went very well. But now weaning became such a stressful time.

She has a great interest on foods since 5 month and she's healthy chubby full term baby - now weighting 8kg (18lb). She bang our bowls and dip her fingers into my yoghurt? staring on how we eat dinner.

The thing is that now she's screaming on her high chair doesn't want to open mouth, kicking...etc. If I hand over the bottle with expressed milk she finishes it really quickly. She is definitely hungry... She grabs her spoon and chew on them very well. But just don?t want her purees...

The worrying thing is she started to vomit almost every evening. This fussiness and vomiting started since I introduced her courgette so I tried to give her something else today but got same reaction. She's not vomiting right after the feed, just in the evening before the night sleep. She had a reflux since 6 weeks but outgrown of it after few months already. But now she's vomiting again so I feel really hard about it. She wasn't vomiting the first week of the weaning and she had pear, sweat potato and carrot that time.

I am thinking should I just give her breast milk only and delay the whole weaning thing? Maybe she will be interested on solid soon later?. But when I see her being so interested on our foods and signs of how hungrier she is I am not sure whether delaying will be a good idea. She have about 8-9 oz milk in the morning and get hungry about an hour earlier than her usual next feed. I don?t think my milk supply is low as I used to have a lot more than what she needs that donated milk to hospital.

I am also considering to try the "Baby-led weaning". I haven?t tried any finger foods yet to her but I am so afraid that she will choke? If I give it a go with BLW, which food should I start with? What?s the safest way of doing it? If I am feeding her outside without tray and highchair how do you do that? If baby just drops all foods on the floor then she will not have any food in her stomach, is that ok?

Or...Maybe have week of break from weaning and later give her puree and BLW combo feeding? Will they work?

Sorry my thread became really long but I am really stressed with weaning and need some wisdom from mums here please. There are so many different advices and options... I am so confused. I wish I can understand what DD is screaming for...

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lukacmum · 23/07/2010 15:08

Sorry some of my .... and ' change to ? mark... no idea how to edit the message though

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StealthPolarBear · 23/07/2010 15:09

if you are so stressed I'd stop for a week or so - it cant hurt. Maybe just sit her on your knee & see if she fancies anything of yours - toast/cheese/cooked carrot?

MrsBadger · 23/07/2010 15:46

hello

Stealth is right - take the pressure off both of you
Perhaps sit her on your lap for meals and let her try anything she grabs - pear, cucumber, carrots, any cooked veg, breadcrusts

it's ok if she drops it on the floor - she'll fill up on milk later

remember she may also be teething, which can be the cause of much unexplained screaming at this age...

(oh and you can't edit posts on MN so don't worry about it - we understood!)

Ineedsomesleep · 23/07/2010 16:17

I agree with the other posters, it sounds like you are having a hard time and are both getting a bit stressed and perhaps a break would do you both good.

Have you thought of giving her a feed before offering her any food? That way she won't be stressed from hunger.

Having weaned 2 children, one with purees and one with BLW I'd choose BLW everytime. Its just so much easier.

I'd stop with the weaning. BF her before your meal and sit her on your knee while you are eating, that way she can help herself if she fancies anything.

Our DD would never sit in her highchair or eat purees, she just hated them both.

lukacmum · 24/07/2010 09:40

Thanks everyone. Ineedsomesleep, yes I also BF her before feed. Though I watch how much she take...
Ya maybe I was too much nervous about it, need to relax a bit more. Yesterday I gave her some banana and toast on her tray and she grab them and sucking on them with big smile. So I am thinking to give BLW go. What can I give her as first foods if I do BLW? And is there anyway that she can feed herself puree? Today morning I put a bowl of puree in front of her and she grab spoon bring to her mouth but of course there isn't any proper amount of puree on it. She pull the bowl to her mouth and kind of start to drink it...What would you do when your baby shows this kind of way of eating...?

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Ineedsomesleep · 24/07/2010 09:49

If she drunk it from the bowl I'd be tempted to let her.

Have you seen this website? It gives some good suggestions to get started with.

Don't worry about doing it the "correct way" too much though. My DD stole and ate a whole ham sandwich at 23 weeks. They can manage most things.

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