Should you let your child win, or play to win every time?

[Parker1970]

How do y’all play with your little ones when it comes to backyard games? I’ve always been a little confused on what the difference is between letting your kiddos win and handicapping. Are those the same exact thing? I’m just curious because I read an article online about it which I can provide if y’all would like. But anyways now I’m curious what everyone else does for these activities? Could you possibly give an example so I can understand?

I am making an edit real quick. What I mean by backyard games is that of outside games.

I’m finding it slightly odd that you can’t work this out as you are playing to be honest. I hope that doesn’t sound unkind… do you not get a vibe on what is appropriate / helpful / fun and what isn’t? Or do you get a vibe and not trust it?

I’m not talking about board games, or video games. I’m talking about outside games

But you posted on the 'Gaming' board, @Parker1970.