I haven't seen my family [Mum and Dad in their 80s and sisters in their 50s] who live in Glasgow since last Feb, so am desperate to see them. One sister lives with my parents and the other lives 15 minutes' walk away. They see each other all the time - obviously.
I have just messaged them to suggest I book something [flexible of course] to come up end of July/beg of August and have been roundly told not to bother until the all clear [whenever that happens]. I feel deeply upset as I have said I'd book something as long as I can amend / cancel if I have to. They see each other all the time and I don't think they appreciate how much I miss them.
When my Dad broke his leg 2 years ago, I wasn't 'allowed' to come up to visit and I regret not just going anyway. My family are notoriously 'careful' and full of conspiracy theories. I just want to see them. If I leave it until it's all-clear, everyone will have booked planes, trains etc and I won't see them for ages.
Thinking of messaging again and saying I'll book for 2025, just to be on the safe side.
I'm going to a wedding in Wales end of August [covid permitting] but that won't happen if restrictions are back in place, so what's the difference?
Any advice?