I have been with my girlfriend for 12 years,I love here dearly,we have 2 lovely kids and a lovely home,but over the years we have had issues with a number of guys who were friends or friends of family or guys at her families local pub where I have been forced to ask if she has cheated,in some cases I have been told she has and some where the evidence is almost clear she has but never been enough to actually know she has,she always has an excuse of only being a flirt or my friend told you that as she's jealous and fancies you,always something that can justify the situation......
A while back we had a packet of condoms in the bathroom and used one during intercourse,after that we decided to go with another form of contraception and they stayed in the cupboard,a little while ago I was in the bathroom fiddling through the cupboard when I noticed there was only one condom in the packet?
I waited until the evening and confronted her and she said she didn't know and that it was probably her teenage niece who had taken it.
So with that I had to say ok,but something is telling me she is lying and I know from the past that she can do that quite well but she insists on her feelings being true and that she loves me but I just don't know if I believe her!
It seems strange that anyone would need to "take" a condom and not say as there not exactly expensive and you can get them free from some places so I just don't know and I'm left with the feeling I've had many times before and wonder how many things like this keep happening to every other couple around the world?
Or did she use it with another guy and cheat on me?