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11+ final summer preparation

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KermitTheF · 05/08/2025 06:28

I would love some advice please because we are absolutely at a loss and don’t know what to do. My child has been consistently preparing for the 11+ since year 4. We started early, as advised, and it has gone really well. He was averaging over 80% in past papers before Christmas last year.

We’re going for the super competitive North London grammars. Yesterday he did a mock for a new English group and we were shocked at the standard - it was so much harder than anything else he has done. It looks like all the mocks he has done and all the work for his (highly regarded) English tutor is just not hard enough. We are now panicking and don’t know what to do. We started early exactly so we wouldn’t be in this position, but it looks like he hasn’t been prepared adequately to stand a chance at QE Boys. We are devastated. If we had known the standard was so much harder than in the mocks he has done (incl SDE), we would have made different decisions.

Have others found this? To give context, he has gone from a raw score of c85%-90%+ to barely achieving 30%. The tutor who set the work he did badly on yesterday said that that was the required standard for QE boys. It was clear she thought he had no chance. I consider myself to be very well informed and I feel like we have wasted the past 2 years and have profoundly let my extremely bright child down.

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KermitTheF · 19/05/2026 22:24

Sorry for the slow reply! He chose Latymer and is utterly delighted - it’s a great fit for him and he scored really highly in the exam, so we feel confident that we made the right choice. It’s a brilliant all rounder school and he is so happy.

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purlain · 21/05/2026 12:22

hi, just wondering how your DC has done in QE exams? We are in the same position. If QE's exam is so competitive, we might consider changing the target school. Really appreciate your advice.

KermitTheF · 21/05/2026 15:29

he came close with QE but didn’t score highly enough for a place, which is totally fine. He did really well in Latymer and is very happy with that choice. It’s a very balanced school for all rounders and QE has lots of challenges, from what we have been told - heavy homework expectation, kids commuting from vast distances, and demographic is much less varied than other schools. Worth trying all options and the right school will come up!

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purlain · 21/05/2026 15:47

Hi, really appreciate your prompt reply.
From your DC's experience, is QE's exam question harder than Latymer or any other school's exams he has taken? I have the feeling that QE is harder to get in mainly due to the higher number of applicants, which have pushed up the threshold but the exam question itself might not be as hard as expected.
Please correct me if I am wrong. Thank you.

KermitTheF · 21/05/2026 16:00

It’s a different exam format from Latymer (MCQ not prose), and the English in particular is very tough. Maths is less tough, but there are a lot of questions (so it’s about time management and accuracy, I think). QE has more applicants than Latymer in general and this pushes up the threshold.

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