My partner has just sprung on me that he has invited a friend to stay over as they have an early flight in the morning. I know I have an OCD process, and so things being put on me last minute feels very uncomfortable, bordering on painful. We live in a very tiny flat with 2 kids, it’s clean but very messy today. I’ve been working all day and will be working tonight. My partner thinks everything looks fine and so states nothing needs to be tidied. I’ve told him his friend is an adult and can make his own way to the airport in the morning, and that I don’t feel comfortable with him staying. My partner has told me he is. It’s getting heated and my kids are here so I’ve left it for now. When I get to work later I wanted to text him and let him that I do not expect his friend to be here when I get home. I’m also pregnant and so my tolerance is extremely low at the moment, I don’t know if I could hold it in later. I appreciate this is probably an irrational response. But my partner knows my feelings about last minute things and I feel he just doesn’t give a shit!