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Bit upset about Parkrun experience today

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TheParkRunPlodder · 05/09/2026 13:50

I want to preface this by saying I love parkrun, the inclusivity, community and encouragement and I suppose that's why this morning has upset me in the way it has!

I'm not new to parkrun but have had a long hiatus due to illness/injury, so in the last few weeks I've been going and walking it. I feel silly for feeling a need to quantify my speed because it shouldn't matter how fast/slow you are but I walk it in around 45 minutes, so I'm not ambling! When I've volunteered as tailwalker some people have finished in up to 1h15 and I've never minded, I'm happy they've come to join in and have either chatted with them as we walk together, or remained at a respectful distance mirroring their pace.

Today there were fewer walkers than usual and I was last from the start, other than two tailwalkers. They were walking so close behind me it felt really aggressive and it was pushing me to go faster (they were walking within 2 - 3ft of me, pretty much on my heels). On a couple of occasions I slowed down a bit and they actually overtook me before dropping back. They definitely knew I was taking part as they had asked me. I had my headphones on so they maybe thought I couldn't hear but they also made comments like 'I NORMALLY walk quite fast' and towards the end 'we're not going to finish in under 45 minutes now' which made me feel bad. At the end we had to actively find the person handing out finish tokens as they were off packing stuff away.

I know I should have said something, but I didn't know how to politely say 'stop walking so close and aggressively behind me' so I didn't.

I know it's volunteers (I have volunteered plenty myself) but would it be inappropriate to raise my experience? I feel I want to give some feedback to stop other people being put off going - if today had been my first time I definitely wouldn't be going again, as I felt so unwelcome.

Any thoughts welcome!

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BabyGrooverBug · 07/09/2026 09:55

Please don't be put off giving it a go - I've got dozens of Parkruns under my belt and have never experienced anything like this before, which is why it was so surprising to me!

I really think all the people saying they aren't going to try parkrun as a result of this thread should do the opposite: Make this thread your trigger to try parkrun and see what it's really like. If people fear they will be to slow, leverage that and volunteer to be tailwalker every time to save someone else doing it.

Selttan · 07/09/2026 10:00

I’ve volunteered as tailwalker a few times and each time the run director doesn’t let the tailwalker start till a decent time after the last participant has started.

And no one has ever been made to feel they have to hurry up by any of the volunteers.

Clumsykitten · 07/09/2026 18:27

Good outcome, well done @TheParkRunPlodder

ExpertlyDecluttering · 07/09/2026 18:30

Good outcome! Yes do give it a go if you are reading and wondering if it is for you, I am nearly 60, several stones overweight and never finish in less than 45 mins can be nearer an hour depending on fitness/injury and have just done my 50th PR, never been made to feel anything but welcomed and included. I just wish I hadn't put it off for years.

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