Hi I work in an office/team with a bunch of ladies.all very nice and I’ve been there 4 years. About 18 months ago this lady started. She was very shy and didn’t mix etc.
we became friends, we texted a lot etc.recently I have noticed how confident she is and texting a lot of the other staff and seem to become quite popular. I’m so happy she has finally found her feet and is getting on with the others really great. A few weeks ago she said to me that she is still very private and don’t engage much with the other staff. Which I found odd as I think she did and other staff has mentioned that they received texts from her etc. I thought why would she lie. Last week she texted me and asked if I was working the next day I said no it’s my day off and she voicemail me and said the other colleague wanted to know, she said I’m in a WhatsApp group with her etc etc
I asked what WhatsApp group and she said she didn’t know who set it up but she joined it so they can talk about work. I did say why wasnt I invited etc ( I shouldn’t have said that really) but because we are “close” it was strange. She’s now making up so many lies saying why this chat was created etc. I feel hurt please be nice I don’t want any nasty comments as I am very sensitive.