Wtf. On the fence here. I’d say the husband is the abuser. These websites are bound to be full of abusers too. What is the world coming too.

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https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c87q7g48y4po

That poor woman. I have no words.

I’m not on the fence at all, her boundaries were eroded over time and she ended up doing things she clearly said she wouldn’t. Coercive control at its very worst. Poor woman.

Her husband is an abuser.

The website, however, is no more responsible for her husband’s abuse than, eg, Tinder would be responsible if her husband had used it to cheat on her.

I feel extremely sorry for her but the only person responsible here is her disgusting husband.

Her H was basically pimping her. The poor woman.

I think it's really really frightening the number of women who are coerced into sexual acts and behaviour that they find abhorrent.

The fact that the term Vanilla sex is bandied about now to deride and ridicule normal loving sexual acts and behaviour is very telling. Women are made to feel they are inadequate and boring by not agreeing to what was once considered quite extreme sexual behaviour.

Jesus, the man who admits to raping women and has the audacity to cry about it!

That’s a really good point @AnonymityAnonymity

She says the website facilitated her abuse. It was a tool.
If a tool is being used wrongly and causing injuries it is not suitable for purpose and needs redesigning.