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What age is appropriate for girls to start shaving legs?

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StarlightRobot · 12/06/2026 15:55

Hi,

My 11 year old daughter has started feeling self conscious about having hairy legs. I feel for her but am reluctant to encourage shaving at such a young age. What would you consider to be an appropriate age for a girl to start shaving her legs? I think I was around 12 when I started. Any advice would be really appreciated.

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Feralbookworm · 12/06/2026 19:42

My daughter was primary 7 I think. I buy the Wilkinson intuition from razors, have used them for about 15 years. They have a massive soap block around the blade so it’s a lot harder to cut yourself. Or hair removal cream. If she wants to do it, I’d let her. I wonder has someone made a comment to her about it? Kids can be so mean these days

PistachioTiramisu · 12/06/2026 19:45

15 - I used to tweezer them out before that - ouch!

TequillaSunset · 12/06/2026 19:56

margegunderson · 12/06/2026 18:08

Never ever shaved mine and I’m now in my sixth decade. We’re all putting pressure on girls to do this - not just classmates and peers. Not good is it?

It is good. Some of us don't like body hair which is a perfectly reasonable opinion to have.

My dd12 and all her friends are also using hair removal methods, which again is perfectly reasonable.

Just as you are to have not bothered with hair removal.. It isn't about pressure, it is about preference.

thesealion · 12/06/2026 20:06

TequillaSunset · 12/06/2026 19:56

It is good. Some of us don't like body hair which is a perfectly reasonable opinion to have.

My dd12 and all her friends are also using hair removal methods, which again is perfectly reasonable.

Just as you are to have not bothered with hair removal.. It isn't about pressure, it is about preference.

The preference wouldn’t exist without sexist social conditioning though, would it. Sure, there are some men who shave body hair but a much, much smaller proportion than women which demonstrates this is not just about choice.

BoarBrush · 12/06/2026 22:12

I'm blonde as is my legs, ye can't even see the hair unless close up or I'm tanned, I can't remember when I started shaving. My oldest dd is very dark haired and had obvious hair early as her periods started at 10, dd2 is super blonde like me. I bought them both razors in p6/7 or so so 10/11ish. They are 17, 15 and both were given a electric trimmer too. Dd3 is 11 and has a razor in the cabinet ready for when she needs it, another super blondey though. Ds11, has bugger all 😁

I shave my legs approximately 2/3 months a year.

Namethenames · 12/06/2026 22:24

RhannionKPSS · 12/06/2026 16:19

Please take her to get her legs waxed , it’s quick, no nicks, a hot wax is best imo, maybe she could take an antihistamine before hand to help with any redness, and the hair will get weaker as time goes on.

The cost of that is ludicrous now. For a child to have her legs done every few weeks will cost a packet. I started shaving mine at 14 because another girl at school kindly told me I needed to. I think the beginning of secondary school is OK. Get her a really good razor.

pinkpony88 · 12/06/2026 22:31

7238SM · 12/06/2026 16:34

I started at 11. Initially with a sensitive skin depilatory cream, then razors a few months later.

I also had something like a very fine sand paper pad which I'd rub on my legs in circular patterns. It smoothed off any early regrowth without the need to shave as often. It was from a pharmacy, not B&Q, but have no idea what they're called.

It was from a pharmacy, not B&Q
🤣🤣🤣

tsmainsqueeze · 12/06/2026 22:49

RhannionKPSS · 12/06/2026 16:19

Please take her to get her legs waxed , it’s quick, no nicks, a hot wax is best imo, maybe she could take an antihistamine before hand to help with any redness, and the hair will get weaker as time goes on.

I agree with this, after a couple of years of having my legs waxed my hair is much finer ,i no longer have them waxed because i don't need to now just a quick shave every couple of weeks.
But if this were my daughter i would certainly do what i could to help her with an insecurity that can be easily fixed.

ForBusyOliveBear · 13/06/2026 23:10

StarlightRobot · 12/06/2026 16:23

Just to add context, she hasn’t asked about shaving her legs. She has just told me she is feeling self conscious about her legs. So I am considering whether it is the right thing to suggest ahe shaves her legs or to wait. I am minded to suggest she start shaving and help her with this, and your responses are all helpful. I am not policing her body or anything like that.

To the poster who suggested a hot wax, I have always shaved my legs and so that’s not a solution I would have naturally considered. Isn’t it painful? Why do you think it would be better? Would a beauty therapist do this for an 11 year old?

Wait for what?

TheWineoftheChicken · 13/06/2026 23:12

ForBusyOliveBear · 13/06/2026 23:10

Wait for what?

Until she asks to shave them maybe?

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 13/06/2026 23:23

Let her

PizzaPowder · 13/06/2026 23:31

I’m 45 and get called hairy legs to this day. (Light heartedly) If they’re hairy and it’s making her self conscious let her shave them.

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