Finding love at 58

[Flyhigher]

So- husband driving me nuts. What’s the chances of me finding love at 58. Is it a crazy dating world that I am not prepared for? Is work the best way to find someone? 😊

Find yourself. You don’t need a man at all!!!!

You’re still married and looking to date? Strange.

Divorce and enjoy being single.

Um, big of a big jump to future fictional perfect happiness with someone else if you’re still married??

If you’re going to start an unpleasant divorce process I’d plan to be alone for a while. There are civilised divorces but I think they’re quite rare personally.

You won't find love with someone else. You may find a version of love. It's much better to BE love then you do not need to seek it outside of yourself.

I did. Married for 30 years to an abusive alcoholic. Finally left him 3 years ago. About a year ago I met a lovely man and we will be celebrating a year together soon. I wish I had left my ex a long, long time ago. I am 60 in two weeks.

But I wouldn’t recommend lurching from one relationship to another. You need time on your own first to make sure your head is in the right place.