My best friend (54M) is getting married next year. to his fiancée (35F) been together years and have a young child together. She is moving into his home permanently and giving up her own place in the process. He has more savings and assets than she does, & she has zero. which is why he originally wanted a prenup as he had been stung in the past in relationships. From what I understand, she was very hurt by the idea and basically said she wouldn’t feel able to go through with the marriage if there was a prenup involved. she has said that marriage should mean full commitment and security, especially when she’s giving up independence and financial stability to build a life together. He ended up deciding he would rather marry her without a prenup than lose the relationship. i personally think he’s being naive and worry that refusing any prenup is a red flag.