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I regret getting a cat

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tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 12:03

It is too expensive. Annual vaccinations, insurance, flea and worming. I wish I hadn’t got her to be honest. How do poor people afford pets?

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WimbyAce · 02/05/2026 18:29

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 12:03

It is too expensive. Annual vaccinations, insurance, flea and worming. I wish I hadn’t got her to be honest. How do poor people afford pets?

We don't do any of this.

SpryTaupeTurtle · 02/05/2026 18:30

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 12:03

It is too expensive. Annual vaccinations, insurance, flea and worming. I wish I hadn’t got her to be honest. How do poor people afford pets?

My cats aren't insured. My oldest boy is 20. They are indoor cats. Not annually vaccinated either. Sorry you feel that way.

ernie23 · 02/05/2026 18:30

If you are on any help from gov , you can go to your local pdsa or blue cross . They are charity vet care and they give either low cost or donations for vaccinations or any treatments u need . Have a look at pdsa website and see if you qualify

maddiemookins16mum · 02/05/2026 18:33

It’s all relative though, our two cats cost us the same each month as having two takeaways which we no longer have. Worth every penny plus you can’t snuggle up to a Chicken curry.

TheyGrewUp · 02/05/2026 18:35

My two:

£35 vet plan (vaccs, two check-ups and felpreva)
£38 insurance
Grub, good stuff: £100ish
Cat sitter: £12.50 per day x 30 = £32.50pcm
Extras: cleaning stuff, dreamies, toys, Indorex £10

North of £200pcm. Mone definitely need good flea and worm stuff - they bring in a mouse at least once a week and eat it all, except for the entrails and sometimes the nose and tail.

They are worth it.

queryinganything · 02/05/2026 18:37

You can get reduced cost vet care if you’re on a low income or in receipt of benefits - PDSA and Blue Cross offer this. If it’s just the cost, could be something to consider. If you’re not gelling with her and it’s just not working, you’d be better returning her to the shelter.

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 18:37

No PDSA in my area.

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Empress13 · 02/05/2026 18:39

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 12:03

It is too expensive. Annual vaccinations, insurance, flea and worming. I wish I hadn’t got her to be honest. How do poor people afford pets?

Did you not do any research before getting a cat ? Did you not realise they need feeding, vaccinating etc ?? Some people I give up !

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 18:47

No not annual vaccinating

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Scoffingbiscuits · 02/05/2026 18:51

We got our cat from a shelter. She was already spayed and tagged when we got her. She doesn't have the annual vaccinations or treatments and we don't have insurance for her. Moggies (non-pedigrees) are generally pretty problem-free (unlike dogs), so I'd rather pay for treatment as and when it's needed. She had her first medical problem recently, aged 18. I took her to the vet's, who had a look at her, said she was too old for them to run any tests and charged me £70. They commented that she was in a very good condition for her age. Since then they've been bombarding me with emails to try to sell me different types of membership and treatments. It's not necessary. And this is how poor people have pets, and how almost everyone had cats until recently.

Scoffingbiscuits · 02/05/2026 18:52

And she doesn't need a catsitter or a cattery if we just go away for a short break. She's extremely independent - all round happy.

FedUpOfThisGCSEmalarkey · 02/05/2026 19:04

Empress13 · 02/05/2026 18:39

Did you not do any research before getting a cat ? Did you not realise they need feeding, vaccinating etc ?? Some people I give up !

It’s awful isn’t it. Poor bloody cats.

SpryTaupeTurtle · 02/05/2026 19:06

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 18:47

No not annual vaccinating

It's not essential to get them vaccinated annually particularly if they are indoor cats

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 19:10

FedUpOfThisGCSEmalarkey · 02/05/2026 19:04

It’s awful isn’t it. Poor bloody cats.

I’m not sure why you’re saying ‘poor cats’. My cat is happily sitting on my lap having had a nice dinner and lazing in the sun all day.

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dailyconniptions · 02/05/2026 19:11

WimbyAce · 02/05/2026 18:29

We don't do any of this.

It's unbelievably bad to not de-worm your cat. Dangerous for human health too.

Waitingfordoggo · 02/05/2026 19:12

Faceonthewrongfoot · 02/05/2026 12:24

We pay £20 a month for insurance and £20 a month for our vets pet plan that includes vaccinations and monthly flea/worm treatment. So doesn't seem unmanageable but I guess it depends on your income.

Is your pet quite young? We’re paying about £200 a month for three elderly pets 🥴

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 02/05/2026 19:15

An unvaccinated cat or dog is at risk of multiple preventable infections and cannot be put in a boarding kennels or cattery. If you keep your cat indoor-only and use a sitter during holidays, you may consider the infection risk acceptable.

Animals cost money and, if you don't want to pay it, don't have a pet.

CatOfHate needs regular tooth cleaning, costs ~£650 each time. Worth it.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 02/05/2026 19:21

WimbyAce · 02/05/2026 18:29

We don't do any of this.

How do you not have fleas and a worm-filled cat?

Empress13 · 02/05/2026 19:21

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 19:10

I’m not sure why you’re saying ‘poor cats’. My cat is happily sitting on my lap having had a nice dinner and lazing in the sun all day.

So why are you moaning that you can’t afford to keep him?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 02/05/2026 19:27

Tel12 · 02/05/2026 12:06

I guess they don't have insurance, vaccinations and buy flea and worm treatment from supermarket as and when needed.

Fleas can become resistant to shop-bought treatments. This happened to CatOfHate about three years ago. He's been on prescription flea killers ever since. It was horrible seeing groggy, half-poisoned fleas crawling on him.

I also absolutely freaked out, nearly threw up, when a tapeworm segment that had come out of his arse started crawling up my arm (yes, they are motile) a fortnight after giving him shop-bought wormer. Reader, he now gets prescription wormer.

shhblackbag · 02/05/2026 19:29

We don't. The things you mentioned in the OP is why I don't have a cat. I would have loved to. Hope you find a way to afford it.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 02/05/2026 19:31

tellmesomethingtrue · 02/05/2026 17:47

No not really because of ing a cat is so commonplace and I didn’t realise I would have to get monthly flea and worm treatment from the vets. Didn’t think insurance would be so much.
it’s reassuring that so many on here don’t do that though. How often do cats catch fleas? If they get fleas, and you have to treat the cat, do you then have fleas in all your soft furnishings and on you?

If they get fleas, and you have to treat the cat, do you then have fleas in all your soft furnishings and on you?

Yes, but you can stop the larvae from pupating with Indorex and the treated cat acts as a death trap for the adults emerging from the pupae if you keep the cat treated.

Happyjoe · 02/05/2026 19:41

My last cat had vaccinations every 3-4 years, the big one followed by booster. He reacted so badly to vaccines I couldn't put him through it every year and the vet told me that 'unofficially' they lasted 4 years. He never got sick and he was into everything.

But yes, pet ownership is expensive. But I knew that. I don't go on holiday because of my pets but it's a nice trade off. They make me happy!

Scoffingbiscuits · 02/05/2026 19:41

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 02/05/2026 19:31

If they get fleas, and you have to treat the cat, do you then have fleas in all your soft furnishings and on you?

Yes, but you can stop the larvae from pupating with Indorex and the treated cat acts as a death trap for the adults emerging from the pupae if you keep the cat treated.

Have had the cat for 15 years. She's goes outside but she's never had fleas. She's never had any flea treatment either. It's easy to exaggerate these potential issues.

Discodance1988 · 02/05/2026 19:42

At one point I had 6 cats, I'm on benefits, never bothered with vaccinations, they had Tiger wet and dry food (supermarket home brand) if they ever got fleas I flea bombed the house, they always had £1 flea collars on and it was incredibly rare they got fleas, none of them ever had worms and they would hunt and bring home anything from mice to rabbits. None of them was insured either. They all lived to a healthy old age.

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