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The paranormal

Coincidence or something more after drinking my late neighbour's wine?

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MyFairLady22 · 24/06/2026 21:34

Ok. So, I’m not big on spiritual stuff. Am agnostic. Don’t believe in things that go bump in the night. But.

Eighteen months ago, an elderly neighbour of mine died. She was 94. We met up for coffee regularly, shared special occasions and talked a lot. She’d led an interesting life; been a teen when the Nazis took over Austria and fled at the end of the war into the woods, surviving on dead horse and anything else they could find.

Today, I came home from work and went to the fridge to get some filtered water. I drank it, and then opened the fridge because I remembered I had a bottle of white wine in there. My neighbour gave it to me a couple of years ago. She’d forgotten that I never (ever) drink white wine and gave it to me as a “good wine” to open on a special occasion. It’s sat in my fridge for all that time. Unopened in favour of red.

I’d poured myself a class and just seated myself in a shady spot in the garden and took a sip. It was so good, just as she’d said. I finished the glass and thought, it’s not a special occasion as such but I’m having a mare of a time in life at the minute (son in hospital, remnants of a shit divorce, house sale, “stuff”!) and I’ve made it through another day! 😐

Then, I got a text from a lady who I knew randomly and briefly, through my neighbour. “It’s Edetta’s birthday today. I’m raising a glass to her!” This second woman isn’t a friend; I had her in my phone as an additional contact for Edetta when she was alive.

That’s seriously odd, isn’t it?

I don’t believe those who have died “watch over” us but, it seems very coincidental.

Anyone?

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Twoshoesnewshoes · 24/06/2026 21:42

I agree that seems much more than a coincidence.
lovely though

MyFairLady22 · 24/06/2026 21:48

Twoshoesnewshoes · 24/06/2026 21:42

I agree that seems much more than a coincidence.
lovely though

Sometimes things just can’t be explained, I guess.

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didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 24/06/2026 21:52

My mind is absolutely blown by this story, specifically the bit where you've had a bottle of wine in your fridge for years. Both in terms of fridge space and nobody ever coming to your house who drinks white wine I find that staggering.

The timing is probably just coincidence but who knows? Enjoy your wine and happy birthday to Edetta.

MyFairLady22 · 24/06/2026 22:04

@didntlikeanyofthesuggestions 😂 I just never opened THAT wine. Cause it was “special”.

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TeaSet · 24/06/2026 22:16

Whatever the cause that's just a lovely thing to happen.

Happy birthday Edetta. Cheers!

baroqueandblue · 25/06/2026 00:39

Carl Jung would call it synchronicity. I'd say your experience was a vote of confidence in you at a very trying time in your life. Some grace to reassure you and help you feel supported in your trials. Things will work out, no matter how bleak they are at the moment.

Well, that's how I'd read it, something along those lines. You're not as alone with it all as you feel at times. There's a hidden dimension to life that can remind you of your strength.

"Only connect."

Branleuse · 25/06/2026 01:00

How lovely 💚🥂

maxslice · 25/06/2026 03:48

It’s lovely. And that made your moments sipping the wine a true occasion.

IDontHateRainbows · 25/06/2026 03:51

Do you ever think about all thd times a coincidence didn't happen? So to get a coincidence once in a blue moon isn't thst surprising.
I can be woo but I honestly think it's just that.

violetcuriosity · 25/06/2026 09:41

I think the subconscious keeps track of dates and times etc, think about how you always wake up just before your alarm. I wonder if something subconsciously reminded you it was her birthday from when you knew her and that’s what made you double back and open the wine. Uncanny about getting the message at the same time though!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 28/06/2026 09:31

It could be a coincidence and woo at the same time. It’s a lovely thing to happen though. And it’s nice you and Edetta were friends.

Owly11 · 28/06/2026 12:30

I can't get over that you kept a bottle of wine in the fridge for two years 😱. It must have been well over chilled and you must have a massive fridge. And why put it in there in the first place if you were never going to drink it?

NovemberMorn · 28/06/2026 12:41

violetcuriosity · 25/06/2026 09:41

I think the subconscious keeps track of dates and times etc, think about how you always wake up just before your alarm. I wonder if something subconsciously reminded you it was her birthday from when you knew her and that’s what made you double back and open the wine. Uncanny about getting the message at the same time though!

That was exactly my thought too.
But whether there can be a reasonable explanation or not, what a lovely thing to happen.
Enjoy the rest of the bottle, once opened it wont keep too long. x

MyFairLady22 · 28/06/2026 19:44

@Owly11 You missed the point.

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