Dreamt of DH's hand amputated and ij the toilet

[Wanderwander]

The dream really freaked me out.

I was shopping in lidl or aldi thinking about going to the booze isle whuch i could see and went to use their toilet that was right next to me suddenly. It was a tiny cabin. I closed the metal sliding toilet door and saw my DH'S right hand semi floating, semi stuck and unable to be flushed (i didnt flush it but it looked stuck) it was ghostly white like very cold hands that have been in water too long. I just recognised it immediately as his. I panicked and left as quick as i couod get and woke up gasping for air and frightened.

I appreciate many dont believe in omen but please if anyone knows about dream interpretation can you shed some light? I'm worried.

@Wanderwander

My first thought was what part of your reality are you avoiding really looking at, at the moment, and does it have something to do with your husband's job? Family finances making you anxious? There's little or no room for your needs at the moment and a real sense of avoiding facing facts. I don't interpret the dream as a bad omen, it feels more like something that has already happened that you're both probably not dealing with as openly as you need to, for practical solutions to be found to the dilemma you find yourselves in. And there's a pattern to the difficulty, by which I mean in some shape or form you've been here before and it needs sorting out again, But you're in denial about the seriousness of it. Once you face up to things, the situation will be 'unblocked' - possibly to do with a responsibility you need to hand back to him. You mustn't be expected to carry the burden on your own.

Also, at some level is your husband doing someone else's dirty work at the moment, for little or no reward, and that's having an impact on your marriage? Or has he thrown his hand in at work (perhaps foolishly) and it's causing you difficulties?

Another thought: your DH "has a hand in" something messy, and it has backfired on him somehow. You suspect there's foul play involved, he could get into trouble for it - maybe something you know is true deep down but haven't confronted yourself with, have wanted to ignore it but it has made you angry. Except that there's nowhere for you to put that anger, it's bottled up and eating away at you.

^ Possibly to do with fraud or embezzlement, moving money around in a deceptive way, stealing even?

Sorry to pain such a bleak picture, and I hope I'm wrong, but whatever it is you already know the 'truth' but are finding it very difficult to accept

Thank you, i'll PM you my reply.

I don't know, OP, did you watch anything scary on TV? I find that what I watch or read in the day effects what I dream about. And I often have very vivid and disturbing dreams about demonic forces and the supernatural- I think sometimes it's just one of those things.