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AIBU to offer you a free tarot reading ? (Message from OP: Temporary pause on readings while she catches up!)

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tarotjaney · 20/07/2018 17:58

Hi guys !

I'm currently working on tarot readings and I'm giving out free reads if anyone wants one ? :)

Just write your question below and I'll have a go a three card spread for you .

Im practising so I'm just giving this a go ! Will be back later to respond to any takers ( if there's any!)

OP posts:
tarotjaney · 20/08/2018 00:49

@IamReginaFalange nah.

Long story short - I was with a guy for 10 years , engaged and bought a house - he fell in love with someone from the office and we ended. I moved abroad , she moved into my house and now they're getting married.

But I carry no bitterness. So I don't I understand why she would to this? I haven't even spoken to the ex since 2016 so I'm confused as to why now?! I want to live my life and continue to love my life the way I have been.

I'm happy they're happy, so why try and bring me down for absolutely no reason? :s

OP posts:
Whoisalanbrazil · 20/08/2018 04:49

It doesn't sound like she's happy OP. Happy people don't do things like that.

iloveparties · 20/08/2018 07:06

Are you sure it's her? Could it be him/someone impersonating her?

Sorry this happened, hope you get sorted

SnugglyBedSocks · 20/08/2018 07:15

Will DH and l have a happy marriage?

SnugglyBedSocks · 20/08/2018 07:17

Opps. Sorry. Just saw your post.

People are such arseholes

LukeSkywalkerBoots · 20/08/2018 07:24

Happy people don’t do things like this OP. She must be a jealous and bitter person.

All the best to you and I hope you carry on with tarot. X

Giggorata · 20/08/2018 07:33

Hi OP, sorry to hear about all the trouble and nastiness from someone.. whom I agree, doesn't sound at all happy, to be so bloody vindictive.
i hope it all resolves soon and you carry on with tarot reading and all works out.

Electrascoffee · 22/08/2018 21:49

I would like to know which relationship to carry on with. If you possibly could do this.

Electrascoffee · 22/08/2018 21:50

Sorry I didn't read the thread! Ignore me...

harajukubabe · 29/03/2019 12:19

What is next for me.

WhiskersOnCats · 29/03/2019 12:46

Aw, such a pity you've stopped answering our burning questions here. I'm on the fence about tarot readings, but it can't hurt.

If you do decide to maybe to a few more readings, I have a pressing question and would love to know what will happen, or indeed how to make it happen.

So if you change your mind, I'd be very honoured if you could answer this one for me.

Will I manage to turn things around and get back to where I was 1 year ago?

Thanks and best of luck with your business.

reenchantmentofeverydaylife · 30/03/2019 17:15

WhiskersOnCats I hope you don't mind but I had a go at a 3 card spread for you. I held your username and question in mind as the cards were being shuffled and this is my interpretation.

At present you appear to be almost suspended in time, waiting for things to change. There's a sense of sacrifice in your situation, as though you had to give something (or someone) up, perhaps hoping it would eventually get you to a better place. Or you may have felt you had little choice in the matter. Either way, things feel upside down and you're out of your comfort zone, probably finding it difficult to imagine how you might move forward. You may well be struggling with breaking an old, possibly self-defeating habit at this time.

The card in the past position suggests that there may have been an issue of loss and/or leaving. It seems that some powerful forces were in play which made it difficult for you to comprehend why things happened the way they did. An inability to control events, and a sense of being caught between two poles, unable to bring potential to fruition because of feeling torn, perhaps. In the end, it probably felt as though life was choosing for you, rather than having more of a sense of agency in important matters. A downward direction seems significant, or feelings and events going 'underground' to a place that you couldn't access. Was someone or something taken from you, or vanished?

Looking to the future, rather than physically returning to the past I see a process of coming to terms with it and healing from within. You've been 'wounded' at some level and the emphasis will be on finding meaning in that, as opposed to being able to turn back time. There is a deeply spiritual tone to your reading, almost esoteric, certainly powerfully archetypal. It's as though things went dark some time ago and you felt yourself propelled into a struggle of significant proportions. From your current vantage point it may feel endless but there is a way out. Look to sources of wisdom for a renewal of your values that will move you forward. Try not to put conditions on exactly what a 'resolution' of the situation might look like and instead be open to being changed by your experience and growing towards new conditions for you to grow and thrive. I've no doubt you've been through a singularly challenging period and are still trying to make sense of why it had to happen as it did. But trust that life had a design in mind that will become clearer as time goes by, and in the meantime focus on dropping any sense of doing what you think others expect of you. Free yourself, let your world view be altered by what you've been through, and put your faith in your ability to find enriching and life-renewing meaning in what you've been through. There's even a suggestion that the learning you distill from your painful experience will be useful to, and shared with, others. Teaching or guidance is a strong theme in your not too distant future.

Hope that's useful to you even in some small way. Apologies if it's wildly inaccurate! Smile

dontdoxmeeither · 31/03/2019 10:17

@reenchantmentofeverydaylife

If you don't mind (but no worries if not), will the thing that I hope will happen, happen?

I don't see any harm in it either Smile

reenchantmentofeverydaylife · 31/03/2019 12:33

don'tdoxmeeither I've tried a one card pull for a yes/no answer, since your question doesn't have much detail. Hope this helps:

Yes, but only if you accept that there is risk involved and you'll have to take a leap of faith. And you might want to take a good look at what you're going into before you make that choice. Also, whatever the situation, it's very early days. But luck is on your side.

On the other hand, if you're wondering why something hasn't already happened, it's likely to be because deep down you feel conflicted about it.

dontdoxmeeither · 31/03/2019 17:57

Thanks Smile

reenchantmentofeverydaylife · 02/04/2019 00:34

Hello WhiskersOnCats :)

I wondered if you'd seen the reading I left for you a few days ago. I've done face to face readings before but haven't done any online readings. If you get a chance to read it and find it at all useful, please leave a comment to let me know. By the same token, if it's absolutely useless, feel free to tell me! I'd like to do more if people find them helpful.

Best wishes :)

reenchantmentofeverydaylife · 02/04/2019 00:39

And hi tarotjaney! I realise I ought to have asked you if you mind me doing a few readings on your lovely thread. Looks like you haven't posted for a while so I hope all is well. If you'd prefer I could start another thread, although if I do I'd appreciate some advice on how to manage tonnes of people all asking for readings Grin

cricketmum84 · 02/04/2019 07:11

@reenchantmentofeverydaylife could I ask you to do a reading for me please?

I'm going through an extremely tumultuous time at the moment and need to know if things are going to get better?

Thank you Thanks

reenchantmentofeverydaylife · 02/04/2019 11:31

Hi cricketmum84, I've chosen a 3 card reading for you:

There's an energy of change defining things in your life at present, possibly in the area of career and/or personal development and relationships. You might in fact be trying to change things but feeling as though the chaos is relentless. Frustrated and fed up would sum up how you're feeling.

This connects to a period of things being worryingly out of balance in the recent past, probably most noticeably at a financial/business level. That may have taken its toll on your health. Was there an issue of overspending, either by you or someone you're financially linked with? Again, it could also have signified a wasting of other resources, like goodwill or understanding, in a way that was too generous and left you in a deficit of sorts. Your current frustration is a result of things not 'lining up' sufficiently, possibly due to a dip in availability of work or opportunities. There's a suggestion here of areas like education or arts or occupations related to sociology or psychology. Were you retraining and had to stop for financial reasons, perhaps?

Your outcome card tells us that good news is on its way! An energy boost in the form of starting (or restarting) a job or a course, or some sort of creative project. You might be about to hear something to that effect, such as a letter, email, or call, and it'll help you start over and give you the momentum to move out of the current confusion and into a sense of renewed purpose and direction. There's potential for success as long as you stay focused and keep your finances in order, setting your intention to avoid the questionable choices or oversights that might've turned things upside down previously. (Although to be fair that may well not have been entirely down to you.) Past losses can be somehow compensated by this new start, leaving you freer to pursue your path.

Overall, despite the tumult you described, there are no dramatic or cosmically challenging cards in your reading. The sense is that, despite the intensity of the present and recent past, it's nothing you can't recover from fairly resourcefully. One word of advice might be in order, however: be prepared to cut your losses if necessary.

I hope the reading is useful and I'd be extremely grateful for a bit of feedback, affirming or otherwise! Smile

ChorleyFMcominginyourears · 02/04/2019 11:52

Will me and my husband make it?

reenchantmentofeverydaylife · 02/04/2019 12:47

Hi ChorleyFMcominginyourears, I'm trying a 5 card 'Spirit Spread' to look into your question. Please leave some feedback in exchange for your reading Smile

Your first card indicates that you're presently either physically separated, or feeling isolated in the marriage. It appears to be a time of solitude and looking inwards, reflecting on events and feelings and trying to gauge exactly where your relationship is at. The key words here are caution and inner knowing, or listening carefully to what you know deep down is the truth of things for you.

Your second card shows things being pulled apart, and movement. This could suggest a physical move to a new location, a journey, or simply an inability to reconcile differences between the two of you. I get the sense that this is where things are headed, or at any rate might look that way. However, there's also potential for you to overcome the factors threatening to divide you and find common ground through talking. Lots of dialogue. If separation seems inevitable, try to keep talking and keep any anger in check if at all possible. Whatever difficulties you're having relating to one another won't be healed in an unfeeling and aggressive atmosphere. On the other hand, if that's his default attitude at the moment, you need to be cautious.

The next card probably describes you in the situation: loyal, warm, well-intentioned, and desperately trying to keep yourself centred and your energy focused. I get the feeling your generosity of spirit is being tested to the max here and your usual flair and capability might've been dampened or 'blown out' by your recent trials. The most important aspect of this card is the encouragement not to let your own light be dimmed by events or the destructive choices others make. You may also feel as though you're 'playing a part' in order to get through the days, while pushing down your real feelings for the sake of appearances. That might be useful to a degree, but it can't go on indefinitely or your lovely light will burn out.

Although it might seem like a distant memory at the moment, in the past there was some sort of success or triumph that deserved celebrating. It might've been simply that things improved between you for a while, or it could be that your current marriage problems are somehow related to work issues. A missed opportunity or a promotion that didn't materialise may have driven a wedge. Alternatively, a success of some kind may have produced a swagger and confidence that somehow devalued your marriage. Difficult to say without knowing more about you both I'm afraid. But regardless, work demands or pressures probably took a toll in some way.

Is he away a lot due to work, or having to move for similar reasons? There's a suggestion that the demands and practicalities of building up a business might've had a devastating impact on your relationship, leaving you alone quite a lot keeping the home fires burning, Perhaps you agreed to that initially but for one reason or another it has proved difficult and the relationship has suffered. There are definitely financial or business difficulties impacting on your marriage and they may even be driving a coach and horses through it.

I don't pretend to be able to predict the future, so I won't give you a yes or no answer here. The situation's subtleties don't allow for that I'm afraid. I'd only reiterate the importance of keeping talking, but being prepared for a split to happen. If it does, try to keep the conversation going to see if that makes a difference. Most importantly, though, be careful not to lose yourself and the priority of your needs, as well as your best qualities, in the shuffle.

Hope that's somehow helpful Flowers

cricketmum84 · 02/04/2019 12:47

@reenchantmentofeverydaylife thanks so much for the reading. There's a lot that makes sense in there! Bit of feedback for you:

There's an energy of change defining things in your life at present, possibly in the area of career and/or personal development and relationships. I've gone through 5 jobs in the past year with the most recent only ending last week. Frustrated and fed up is definitely where I am!

This connects to a period of things being worryingly out of balance in the recent past, probably most noticeably at a financial/business level. That may have taken its toll on your health. Was there an issue of overspending the Job I had a year ago was very well paid. I'm the one guilty of overspending as I sometimes spend like I'm still in that job rather than actually facing our true financial status.

There's a suggestion here of areas like education or arts or occupations related to sociology or psychology. Were you retraining and had to stop for financial reasons, perhaps? I would love to become a counsellor. Have been looking into retraining but right now we can't afford it.

Your outcome card tells us that good news is on its way! An energy boost in the form of starting (or restarting) a job or a course, or some sort of creative project. You might be about to hear something to that effect, such as a letter, email, or call, and it'll help you start over and give you the momentum to move out of the current confusion and into a sense of renewed purpose and direction. I'll update and let you know if I hear anything! I'm still applying for jobs in the area I'm trained and experienced in but just don't enjoy anymore. I want to do something different but just don't know what?

Thanks :) that was a really good reading!

reenchantmentofeverydaylife · 02/04/2019 13:51

cricketmum84 thanks so much for your feedback! It really helps me to get a sense of whether or not reading online can have the impact of reading face to face, so I'm very grateful.

With what you've told me about your situation, I'd say the advice for now is to somehow take your first steps towards your preferred career. Since you're unhappy in your current field, try to tolerate it as a means to an end, which is to progress toward your goal of being a counsellor. I see opportunity in some shape or form, and particularly if you embrace it as such. The financial lessons of the past are significant here: use what you've been learning about living within reduced means to give you a more realistic idea about what retraining would need of you in that respect. And don't let it put you off - recognise that what you truly want may come at relatively short-term cost but will pay off in more than the obvious way. There's a nod to valuing yourself with greater commitment in the underlying message of your spread.

Best of luck! Flowers

hairymclarey152 · 02/04/2019 14:05

Will things work out for me eventually

GinisLife · 02/04/2019 15:19

I'd love to know if I will ever meet a life partner or if I'm destined to be on my own

Also (being greedy) if my health issue will be resolved positively.

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