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Toddler ona Pony! Mission accomplished

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pandora69 · 18/02/2010 21:01

My daughter has a pony. DD calls her neigh-neigh (not the pony's real name, but she seems to answer to it anyway.) She loves her neigh-neigh! But has been a bit un-impressed by the weather lately and has refused to leave the house to go and see her. Pony is only in the back garden, but hey-ho, I don't want DD to hate doing the horses and she is only 2 so I let her off.

I suggested we take neigh-neigh out the other day in the trailer and 'find 'owndz' (otherwise known as hunting. This is an activity DD and I enjoy together, but normally in the warmth of the car, with heated leather seats, tea and milk, and lots of chocolate.) DD jumped at the chance and wanted to go there and then! I managed to persuade her we had to clean the pony first. So we carried out the activity whereby all of the muck and mud is transferred from the gee-gee to the person. The pony's coat is so thick that the only way she was going to be dry next day was to get up early and blow dry her. So that's what I did.

So we set off to the meet, which was a charity bloodhound hunt featuring 2 packs of hounds, and they were to be hunting a gang of army types running across some of the biggest hedges in the area. Clearly 2yo DD was not going to be jumping any of these (even though she asked so nicely and said 'p-leeeeeeeeease, Mummy, neigh-neigh brrr-ump!' (She can't say jump properly yet.) I packed a little satchel with lots of choccie bars and wipes, put on me best hat, and plonked DD on the pony.

Within seconds we had been photoed and interviewed for Local Rider mag. The pic of DD and pony was gorgeous! Unfortunately I cannot show it to anyone, as I am also in the picture - 'glowing,' shall we say. Either that or like someone who has eaten all the pies. I have my scan next week, so hopefully will not be announcing my pregnancy to all my friends when they stop to flick through a magazine while standing in a queue at the feed store.

Next DD decided she was 'FINISHED!' riding her pony. And wanted to get off. Then back on. Then back off...... You get the picture. A media type chap came over and asked how old DD was - '2! Oh, can you put her back on the pony for a photo, please.' So we obliged (there was chocolate bribery involved,) and just at that moment a hound stood up and put it's paws against the saddle and sniffed DD's face (well, it was all chocolatey.) The photographer went 'got it!' and I asked if I could have his details so I could get a copy of the pic, because I reckoned it would be a lovely one, and he said 'don't worry - you'll be seeing that picture again!' As he wandered off someone whispered 'that's the Horse and Hound photographer!' So we will wait and see.

We set off after the hunt on the first line, but after a few minutes DD started to ask to get off again. I wasn't keen on the idea of being stuck with a toddler who didn't want to be on her pony miles away from the trailer, so we boxed her back up and continued in the car. DD refused to take her riding hat, tweed jacket and tie off for the entire duration of the day.

And bless her, we got a puncture on the way home and didn't get back until gone 6pm, and although she was hungry herself she insisted on helping me feed her neigh-neigh before she went back into the house.

I can't wait till I can ride with her on a lead rein. It's going to be fab!

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Pixel · 18/02/2010 21:11

Oh that's so sweet, I've gone all teary.

Will look forward to seeing you both in Horse and Hound! (stopped buying our Local Rider as I'm a recluse and never knew anyone in it).

MitchyInge · 19/02/2010 09:55

ahhh lovely, what a little star she is - will it be in next week?

have been trying to give up H&H for a while (economy drive!) but definitely want to see that pic

CMOTdibbler · 19/02/2010 10:09

Oh bless. DS saw the hunt out the other week, and has been requesting to go

Out of interest, how old do they have to be before you can lead them off another horse ?

Owls · 19/02/2010 11:15

Ahh yep made me teary as well.

What a lovely day you had. Will look out for the pic in H&H.

CMOT I would have said not before 5yo and even then only as long as they are very secure in the saddle.

CMOTdibbler · 19/02/2010 11:57

Thanks - just wondered - not that DS will have any opportunity anyway !

pandora69 · 19/02/2010 12:06

We're excited about the H&H potential phot! But obviously we won't know untill the edition comes out. Rest assured though, if it makes it in I will be shouting it as loud as I can!

As to riding on a lead rein, it is all very dependent on how stable your child is, how often they ride, how good the pony is, how good the lead horse is and where you are riding. My daughter is very stable in walk but bounces all over in trot (and unfortunately for me she has figured out how to make the pony trot all by herself! Too clever by half. ) The horse I have to lead her from atm is so unsuitable for the job I couldn't think of many worse combinations - he is 17.3hh and frightened of ponies. But after a summer of me leading her about from the ground, with a more appropriate horse for me I would be happy to ride and lead with her. I can jump on and off quickly enough. We only have quiet green lanes to hack along here, so no traffic to contend with. I think she will be a little bit longer yet before hunting on a lead rein! far too exciting all round, but I think she would be OK season after next, ie when she is 4. I would only walk at the back with her though.

Here is DD in a basket saddle with my mother on her cob last Spring

CMOT, how old is your child? Provided pony is bombproof, why not go to a meet and just walk along with them at the back for half an hour or so? Hunts are usually very keen to encourage 'the brat pack.'

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CMOTdibbler · 19/02/2010 12:15

He'll be 4 in May - but since I have only been riding for a few months, and we don't have a horse/pony, he is never going to get to go out with the hunt - just has ideas above his station .

I was really wondering as we'll be riding on holiday somewhere that there is no traffic, and last year it was lovely for him to go out for a long ride, but rather tedious for the adults as we all had to walk too (well, actually I plodded along on a horse too, but this time I can do a lot more).
He can trot fine, and is very secure (his little friend from nursery has two bad tempered shetlands, and when we went out for a walk with them, his tried to buck him off, but he stayed on). T
heres a picture of him on my profile in the snow - your DD is v cute

mummydoc · 19/02/2010 13:50

cmot i took dd2 aged just 4 to her first meet middle of october last yr. she on pony me on foot, it was great we stuck it out for 2 hrs and i must have run miles and lept ditches small hedges etc. The master told me after that he htinks around 7-8 for leading off another horse at a meet. and then if the child is a good rider.

pandora69 · 19/02/2010 14:01

CMOT, your DS looks very cute on that little grey pony! If you were closer (I am in W Berks) you could put him on Poppet for a mini-walk behind a hunt. Poppet is ancient and wise in the ways of these things! (So she tells me.) Don't think your son is getting ideas above his station - I don't come from a well-off background, and have hunted with everyone from teachers and grooms to dukes. Everyone fits in!

I have taken a few 7-9 year olds old on their first days hunting, and that is when the real pony fun starts! I recall specifically telling 2 little sisters not to follow me over one particular hedge but to go through the gate and meet me on the other side. About half way over this huge hedge I heard 'Wheeeee!' and looked behind me, when I realised I had 2 tiny ginger furballs stuck to my horse's back end. I nearly had heart failure by the end of the day - neither child would do as I asked, and one of them fell off doing something she shouldn't have been doing. They are teenagers with go-faster stripes now

Just realised that photo above is tiny btw. This one is of her hunting earlier this year. She loves her hunting gear, although she would prefer to wear the pink hat with the stars and pompom on it. Note the obligatory sausage roll.

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pandora69 · 19/02/2010 14:05

mummydoc, my dad let me off the lead rein at the age of 8 and it was as though someone had fired me out of a cannon! I overtook the master in about 3 seconds flat and was sent home. I was back on the lead rein for the rest of the season, but out again on my own the next year. Sorry for the photo overload, but here is proof of that! We weren't horsey when I was little, and I didn't start riding till I was 6.

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CMOTdibbler · 19/02/2010 14:31

I think the sausage roll is an entirely appropriate accessory !

Ideas above his station - didn't mean exactly class/poshness, but more that anything he sees someone else doing on a horse, he thinks he can do too. So, having enjoyed his lead rein jumping hugely, when we went to Olympia he was giving me a running commentry about how he was going to go down the steps, jump over the wall, get on the horse and go over the jumps .

MitchyInge · 20/02/2010 09:55

awww little ones on little ponies - BROODY

those pics were too cute

skihorse · 20/02/2010 14:19

pandora If it appears in H&H can you please scan a pic? I won't get H&H within 150 miles of here for love nor money!

Alicetheinvisible · 22/02/2010 11:34

I love seeing small children on ponies!

DD not too bothered about riding but loves being up at the yard (she will ride dammit! ) my friend has an absolutely fab shetland that we may have on loan in a year or 2 when her kids outgrow her.

pandora69 · 22/02/2010 12:23

Skihorse, will do!

I can see I am going the world's most pathetic horsey mother. There'll be none of this 'if you want it you'll have to work for it.' I'm so desperate for her to like it the second she asks me for anything ponified I'll just roll over and acquiesce.

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Butkin · 22/02/2010 14:10

DD went to her first meet when she was nearly 3 and really enjoyed it. We just led her away to the first field so she could see them go and then boxed up.

More recently she has been following, with me leading her on foot. However the pony is getting increasingly excited (expecially if we've been caught in the middle of the "field")so we've taken a pull on this for a while.

I used to lead her off my cob out hacking from when she was 5. Now (at nearly 7) she just rides along side with us.

However I don't think we'd lead her off a horse out hunting until she is about 8. They basically have to be able to ride the pony by themselves with confidence and the lead rope is just there to stop the pony whizzing off. As there is a good chance that leader and pony will get separated at some point (lead ropes are never long enough!)it is important they can control their own ponies and not get in anybodys way.

Pixel · 11/03/2010 17:31

Pandora, saw your little one as soon as I turned over the first page of Horse and Hound this morning, pic just as you described. Gorgeous!

pandora69 · 11/03/2010 19:54

Yes Pixel, it was a few weeks ago so I had assumed they weren't going to use it. I am very excited by it! 36 years I've been trying to get into H&H, and DD manages it before her third birthday. I'm off out tomorrow to get all my family copies

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Owls · 11/03/2010 20:23

Ahh Pandora, that is such a lovely picture. She is adorable.

CMOTdibbler · 12/03/2010 09:06

Aw, she is gorgeous - what lovely hair, and a fab picture

Mumsnut · 20/03/2010 14:12

Scan! Scan scan scan!

DD (nearly three) has first ride next week ...

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