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Would you put this pony down at the end of the summer? Opinions please.

56 replies

Clinicalwaste · 26/03/2026 10:25

I have had him for 7 years. He is between 23 and 26 years old, I think. He has always been pottery but was cleared by vet and physio to be a child’s lead rein pony which is all I have used him for. He was a show jumper whose career was ended by injury. He had a bad bout of colic in December , a month later he went for me in the field out of nowhere and tried to kick me. Very unusual behaviour. I called the vet who confirmed swollen and arthritic hocks. He is better on a Bute a day but still grumpy. His weight has really dropped off despite being fed and rugged all winter. He dropped off so much last winter I called the vet and had a full check up then. He is up to date with teeth, worming etc. He is only doing 4-5 poos a day. Cushing bloods were ok he was about 22 so only just in the grey area. He is a new forest and I am feeding him more than I have ever fed him including a cup of linseed oil, hi if, mix, carrots, haylage ……. he also has three acres of grass. His companion was put down in January due to medical reasons so he is on his own now. I am not keen to continually manage the decline. I do not want to put him through another winter and have been thinking about putting him down in September. Any advice would be appreciated as I am finding it hard to see the wood for the trees. The vet doesn’t seem that interested in finding out what is wrong with him.

OP posts:
KilkennyCats · 26/03/2026 13:06

Clinicalwaste · 26/03/2026 11:07

He has been so loved and well looked after, what a ridiculously silly post. It is actually a big decision to end the life of our family pony. Really....

It is actually a big decision to end the life of our family pony

It’s not a remotely silly post Hmm
Either the animal is in pain/distress and needs to be euthanised, in which case delaying it by months is unconscionable, or it isn’t, in which case there’s no good reason to do it at all.
Outrageous.

Rachel2409 · 26/03/2026 13:28

Really feel for you, not an easy time! I would let him go especially as he doesn’t have a companion and various health problems. Better a day too early than a day too late 😩

LydiaFunnyGums · 26/03/2026 14:04

It’s hard OP but you need to do the kind thing and let him go. Don't let him suffer longer than he needs to. 💔

Hibernationistheplan · 26/03/2026 14:10

I think if you are going to give him the summer you’d need to find him a companion as he’ll be miserable alone. If that’s not an option I’d do it now.

Newuser75 · 26/03/2026 14:18

You say he is pottery, is he lame? How lame is he? Would you consider hock injections for him to keep him comfortable. Is he eating ok but still loosing weight? If so then perhaps something else is going on, particularly now the grass is coming through. The summer is easier on the horses as there is no muddy fields to wade through and the grass is growing so it’s generally easier for them to maintain their weight.
just some things to think about. I know it’s dreadful to consider and it does sound like he is very loved.

Molly70 · 26/03/2026 15:00

It sounds like he probably has ulcers if you are giving him bute on a regular basis. Benamine is more gentle on the stomach

VividDeer · 26/03/2026 15:03

My horse was pts with his pal on advice of the retirement livery. He'd lost condition and they said it was time.

FanFckingTastic · 26/03/2026 15:06

Either the animal is in pain/distress and needs to be euthanised, in which case delaying it by months is unconscionable, or it isn’t, in which case there’s no good reason to do it at all.
Outrageous.

If it were that clear cut and straightforward then the OP wouldn't have asked for advice here!

Not sure what's 'outrageous' about that.

ERthree · 26/03/2026 15:23

Clinicalwaste · 26/03/2026 11:07

He has been so loved and well looked after, what a ridiculously silly post. It is actually a big decision to end the life of our family pony. Really....

No it is not a big decision at all. We have a small holding with many different animals and i can assure not one will suffer longer than it takes the vet to get here.

Clinicalwaste · 26/03/2026 15:40

ERthree · 26/03/2026 15:23

No it is not a big decision at all. We have a small holding with many different animals and i can assure not one will suffer longer than it takes the vet to get here.

You must be an extremely highly trained expert that you can pinpoint the exact moment in a long decline, sometimes, as with humans where there are ups and downs and periods of recovery due to different treatments etc, when an animal needs to be out down. I am in awe of your ability to know this without time and analysing the situation and getting further opinion.

Most of us mere mortals start to notice decline over time and have a few vet visits and some tests and some discussion before making a difficult decision,

You are simply amazing.....

OP posts:
Clinicalwaste · 26/03/2026 15:45

KilkennyCats · 26/03/2026 13:06

It is actually a big decision to end the life of our family pony

It’s not a remotely silly post Hmm
Either the animal is in pain/distress and needs to be euthanised, in which case delaying it by months is unconscionable, or it isn’t, in which case there’s no good reason to do it at all.
Outrageous.

How right you are. Anyone who has a pony who declines over time instead of being in the best of health one day and immediately and obviously needing Euthanasia the next needs to be viewed with suspicion and as you say, is probably an outrageous and cruel person who should not have animals.

I though it was just AIBU that had the batshit posters who are desperate for a row.

All the horse people i know in real life are absolutely sane and lovely.

OP posts:
peppercornrent · 26/03/2026 16:52

ERthree · 26/03/2026 15:23

No it is not a big decision at all. We have a small holding with many different animals and i can assure not one will suffer longer than it takes the vet to get here.

Waiting for the vet to get there IS the day too late. Why make your animal spend it's last few hours ill and/or in pain when you have the chance to make the decision and prevent it? I don't want mine to suffer at all.

Zoec1975 · 26/03/2026 16:56

Clinicalwaste · 26/03/2026 10:25

I have had him for 7 years. He is between 23 and 26 years old, I think. He has always been pottery but was cleared by vet and physio to be a child’s lead rein pony which is all I have used him for. He was a show jumper whose career was ended by injury. He had a bad bout of colic in December , a month later he went for me in the field out of nowhere and tried to kick me. Very unusual behaviour. I called the vet who confirmed swollen and arthritic hocks. He is better on a Bute a day but still grumpy. His weight has really dropped off despite being fed and rugged all winter. He dropped off so much last winter I called the vet and had a full check up then. He is up to date with teeth, worming etc. He is only doing 4-5 poos a day. Cushing bloods were ok he was about 22 so only just in the grey area. He is a new forest and I am feeding him more than I have ever fed him including a cup of linseed oil, hi if, mix, carrots, haylage ……. he also has three acres of grass. His companion was put down in January due to medical reasons so he is on his own now. I am not keen to continually manage the decline. I do not want to put him through another winter and have been thinking about putting him down in September. Any advice would be appreciated as I am finding it hard to see the wood for the trees. The vet doesn’t seem that interested in finding out what is wrong with him.

he is missing his mate by the sounds of it :( can he go to a sanctuary,where he can live with other horses.

LittleGreenDragons · 26/03/2026 17:30

I'm not a horse person but have had a slowly declining pet so I do understand about timings. These words have jumped out at me.

he went for me in the field out of nowhere and tried to kick me. Very unusual behaviour. I called the vet who confirmed swollen and arthritic hocks.
He is better on a Bute a day but still grumpy.
His weight has really dropped off despite being fed and rugged all winter.
He is a new forest and I am feeding him more than I have ever fed him.
His companion was put down in January due to medical reasons so he is on his own now.
One of my concerns about the last summer thing was the heat and flies.

Add them all together and you can see it is time OP, he's not having a good quality of life right now and his health or situation is not going to improve even slightly. I'm sorry Flowers

CeffylCoch · 26/03/2026 17:56

Please do it sooner rather than later, before he ‘goes for you’ again because he will, and he might get you next time which would be very upsetting. Also he’s lonely, he is grieving his friend. Choose a nice sunny day as a PP suggested. He’s not happy now is he, he’s obviously miserable. Sounds like he has had a nice few years with you, don’t let it end on a bad note

PoppySaidYesIKnow · 26/03/2026 18:06

tinyspiny · 26/03/2026 10:51

I’d be having him pts now , infact I’d probably have done it when his companion was pts . We have an elderly pony , who lives with a very elderly horse and the current plan is when one goes they both go as it will be kinder to them both .

I did this, let my two remaining ponies go together. It was one of the saddest days of my life but they had such a strong pair bond that it was right to let them go that way. OP just pick a day rather than counting down, it’ll be harder for you.

snowpo · 26/03/2026 21:07

It's so tough when they're deteriorating slowly to know when to say goodbye. But if you know he's only getting worse you have the chance to avoid an emergency situation, can't get up, colic etc
You know him best and will notice all the little signs that a vet might not see. You honestly have to trust your gut. I know when I was in a similar position I was constantly worried something awful would happen. My mare was on a lot of bute, she still looked fabulous and other people might have thought she was OK but when she stopped rolling/lying down I made the decision. I couldn't risk her getting stuck/not able to get up. They are good at covering up pain. Hardest thing I've ever done the few days between booking PTS and the day it happened.
Like others I'm not sure about one last summer - flies, heat & hard ground, i'd go for a spring day.

Stickytreacle · 26/03/2026 21:17

Hard ground in summer can be difficult for arthritic oldies, add to that the heat, insects and the lack of a companion for an already uncomfortable pony and I think the kindest call is to let him go.
Even if you found a companion it wouldn't resolve his pain issues, and introducing new ponies can be stressful in itself for them.

TalulahJP · 26/03/2026 22:14

does your pony still look like he feels joy in his life? if he does seem happy pottering about fine.

however if he seems a bit lost without his field mate and in continual pain then i’d probably try a different vet and see what they suggested. it could be there is something else he could be medicated with.

if not it might be time. you wouldn’t want him to suffer.

Easterbunnyishotandcross · 26/03/2026 22:20

Can you really look into his eyes? My ddog was telling me she had had enough..
I felt guilty I hadn't really 'seen' her so miserable..

Lesina · 26/03/2026 22:24

Better a week too early than a day too late. Yes just do it. You are a very kind owner.

summergin · 26/03/2026 22:39

God love him but he does seem to be a bit of an old man struggling who is feeling very lonely, deep down do you think he will be happy for at least 70% of his last summer? If not I would say it’s time to do the worst thing for you and the best thing for him x

LavenderFieldds · 26/03/2026 22:45

OP, ignore the haters, it’s a very hard decision. With one of mine it was obvious, with the other I spent a couple of days trying to persuade him to eat but it was time. I’d strongly recommend getting a second opinion from a vet at a different practice. I had a horrendous experience when I lost my DDog - am so relieved I got a second opinion as my usual vet had given her a week of painkillers because she had gone lame but she wasn’t weight bearing so I took her to a different vet. They xrayed straight away and it turned out she was riddled with bone cancer and her shoulder blade had shattered. I don’t think I’ll ever quite get over her being in such pain at the end.

Catroo · 26/03/2026 22:49

As hard as it is, he's not going to get better and its not fair to keep him on his own, keeping him going for the summer is for your benefit, not his.
I have horses/ponies and over the years I have had to make the decision on 'when', what you describe is not much of a life for him so I would say good bye now and not delay it.

CointreauQuaint · 26/03/2026 22:52

I had my mare PTS at 33 earlier this year. I was worried going into the winter but she’d been happy throughout, was rugged, had a cosy shelter and plenty of food. She was sprightly right to the end but went down one day and couldn’t get up. It was awful. They say you’ll know but I really didn’t even though she was old so it was inevitably coming, still not sure I did the right thing.

I feel for you OP, I would give a bit of time as we go into spring to assess, my mare always picked up in the summer so I completely get where you’re coming from.