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Giving up horses

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theninthwave · 10/06/2025 13:53

Anyone got positive stories about giving up horses?
I am almost 60, my horse is 29. I've had horses for 35 years, current one since she was a yearling. I've always managed on my own with no support, paid a mortgage and maintained a home, plus paid for horses on one salary.
I looked after my father for 12 years when he had dementia. I am tired and would like to semi retire in the next five years and do other stuff, like have holidays and a social life.
Not planning to get another horse after the oldie goes, but see so many people saying it's like a part of them is missing.
Really need some positive stories to help me to embrace a different stage in my life!
Am aware that the grief of losing the old one will be immense. Would be good to think there is a life out there after that.

OP posts:
Noisecomplaint · 13/06/2025 09:00

I gave up about 3 years ago and have filled my time with other things (dogs mainly!)

I don’t really think about it, except on lovely sunny days like this.

Im not sure I would get another, but I would consider a part loan or volunteering somewhere horsey.

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