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Torn on whether to get pony for DD (yet) - advice please

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Butterflysize · 07/09/2024 07:46

I have 2 horses at home, my dressage horse and is friend, who is under 12hh and my DC have been pottering about on him since they were babies. However he is super sharp and spooky and not really an ideal children’s pony.

DD is now 3 and starting to get a bit more interested in ponies, saying she’d like to do that when watching shows, horsey events, jumping, seeing horses in the sea etc. However, I wouldn’t say it’s her main interest (which is Disney Princesses, which means ballgowns are usually the preferred riding attire 😂) . She’s not constantly asking to ride or for a pony.

My question is, is it worth getting her a proper safe child’s pony and would this help her get more into it, if she could do more than just being led around the school? Or am I wasting my time and money at this stage? (I have very little of both going spare with a FT job, under 5s and horses). I would love her to get into riding, if she wants to, we live very rurally so it’s a nice hobby round here, we have them at home with good facilities, and I would be made up if she could maybe come hacking with me and us go to little shows together.

Does anyone with horsey DC or relevant experience have any advice?

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CountryCob · 08/09/2024 19:03

@Butterflysize unpopular opinion I know but doesn't sound like that pony is very well suited to the job, wouldn't blame your daughter for not being that keen! Lead reigns who know and are happy enough with their task aren't that tricky to find, it's the first riddens that are the issue. Little kids can be put off by their ride it doesn't take much.

Butterflysize · 08/09/2024 21:20

@CountryCob I agree with you! Not his forte, he’s done well so far with her really based on what his temperament is like.

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CountryCob · 08/09/2024 22:25

@Butterflysize honestly and not trying to score points or be smug I wouldn't keep on trying with that one if it was me, their confidence is too precious. Its not that I want to make my DD be a competitive rider or need to prove anything but just want her to enjoy riding and be safe. The worst my DD ever had as a littlie was a borrowed shetland burst into canter when I wanted trot and that was enough for me not to put her on it again. They aren't all suited to it and it would be pretty easy to find a lead reign pony hopefully for loan in early spring. Don't wait until May when everyone is asking for something to bring to camp. Good luck X

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