I know this has been asked many times before, but I can't find anything particularly recent.
We're thinking of buying a horse to share between myself and DD1 (13 years). I've ridden since a child and had a Fell pony as a teenager, but he was dirt cheap to keep and we had a field for free as I helped out with the farmer's horses.
At the moment we pay £55 per week for a 'part' share of a riding school pony for DD. She does all of the work of caring for the pony, but is only getting to ride 2-3 times a week because her pony is one of the favourites for lessons. She also isn't allowed to hack out or jump (not even trotting poles!), so she basically gets to ride round the school for 30 minutes a few times a week. We pay for her group lesson (£10) and my private lesson (£35) per week. Obviously, only DD can ride her school share. I really miss just spending time around horses. She's getting frustrated that she's very limited in what she can do.
So we're considering getting a 15hh-ish cob-type horse, but I really need to do my homework on the costs.
The livery is £62 per week, (they will turn out/bring in and throw some hay over the door), otherwise it's DIY, although it includes hay and bedding. Would it be ridiculous to be looking at £115 per week, along with a contingency allowance for rug repairs etc? Plus some money for lessons, but would probably drop the group lessons and stick with some private lessons. We'd have about £5k to spend on the horse, maybe up to £6k for the right one.
FYI, I'm in NE Scotland so things tend to be cheaper up here.