I just thought I’d update this as I finally got round to sorting it out
I didn’t use the communicator that I was going to use, I found a different one in the end.
I could ask up to 10 questions, but thought I’d stay vague and just ask if they were happy and settled - I didn’t was to ask leading questions iyswim
I didn’t tell the communicator anything about our horses other than their names. I checked and double checked all our social media accounts, Facebook/Instagram privacy settings and had a good google to make sure there was nothing out there
There was quite a lot of stuff, but the main bits were:
Pony 1 is retired due to arthritis- I didn’t mention this at all to the communicator - communicator came back that pony knew I was worried about her at the moment (I have been), but not to be, she was happy and content, enjoying her retirement and although she felt sore sometimes, she was ok and wasn’t ready to go yet
Pony 1 was a rescue from the RSPCA following severe neglect - she wanted us to know how happy she is with us and doesn’t think about “that place” anymore and that I shouldn’t worry about it - I’ve always been a bit weird about mucking out and making perfect beds as I never, ever want her to remember what happened to her, or worry that it would happen again
Pony 2 - feels she lacks confidence and worries if she feels DD is upset or stressed and felt that DD had been more anxious than usual over the last few months which made her fret, although she felt DD was feeling better recently. (DD struggles with horrendous anxiety, which was worse than ever during lockdown, but has improved over the last few weeks - again, didn’t say a word about this to the communicator). Pony knows that she knocked DD’s confidence with a few silly moments (she did!) but feels that the last few weeks they’ve massively improved together (they have) and that she feels calmer.
Pony 2 knew that her past upset DD but DD was not to dwell on it, she was happy and settled (Pony 2 is covered in scars which have always upset DD).
Pony 2 asked that DD didn’t let her friend ride her again as she didn’t like it - DD injured herself and couldn’t ride for a couple of weeks. Her friend rode a couple of times but was quite rough and yanked on the reins all the time so DD put a stop to it
Anyway, bearing in mind I gave the communicator absolutely no information, there’s nothing online about any of the things she mentioned, it is spookily accurate